Disney Is For Kids- Not Excited

Some people genuinely dont like it. Its the nature of this board that you tend not to hear about them much. My dad lets me and my mother go alone now; he is just bored with it. There are some things that he did like however:

- disney do fireworks like pretty much nowhere else on earth, and there are 3 different shows to see;
- 2 fantastic waterparks in one place (we prefer typhoon lagoon *** its more laid back, but its good to have the variety);
- rollercoasters (yes there are proportionately more rollercoasters in other theme parks, but as youre in Disney, you might as well take advantage of the ones they have).

From what you said about the beach and Wii-land, I would expect your husband would really enjoy typhoon lagoon and Disney Quest. If you dont hate video games or are willing to compromise, please go to Disney quest with him; the various rides and experiences they offer there are so much more fun with company, and you cant gloat about your high scores when you're on your own.

To optimise park time we do mornings in the park, hotel pool in the afternoon,and back to the park for some fireworks in the evening. It sounds like that kind of touring plan would suit your DH prety well (and as the afternoon is the busiest time, you wont be missing out on very much).

The "imagineer's guide to..." books are fantastic for getting non-enthusiastic men into the parks too, *** it explains to them why the concept is so good, and they can feel smug wandering up main street and muttering about forced perspective. That would definitely be my number one tip for getting non-dis-ers involved with the whole disney concept. If he enjoys the books, the keys to the kingdom tour would probably be fun for both of you too.

One word of warning though; if your husband is very aware about money and doesnt really seem to be buying into the whole disney holiday idea, I would steer clear of trying to sell it to him on golf, driving, boats etc. The disney price tag on those is pretty steep (as you would expect in mouseland), but if he isnt seeing any other benefit from the holiday you are only likely to hear about what a rip-off the golf was, and how you can do much better speedboating much safer at X beach resort. They're great as a one off extra, but if you're trying to focus a Disney priced holiday on non-Disney activities, I would say your chances of success are fairly slim.
 
ok he doesnt know what he is talking about. my parents are in their 50's and have been going to disney since it opened. when they were younger without kids and even now without kids. my mom loves it and my dad thinks it is crowed. extra magic hours are a great time to go!
 
my answer might not help much

i am 23, my husband is 31 and we have been to WDW twice (but for 26 days total, one was 10 and one was 16)

we go BECAUSE of all the innocence, the joy, the childlike wonder (my husband is a MANLY MAN..the boy dont do nuthin without a grunt kinda thing) and the sheer fun of it all...

is it FOR kids? no...i just think adults forget how to enjoy simple, sweet things....

and let me tell you, there are plenty of those adults who still go, and just do the *grown up stuff*....i know, they look at me weird when i want to meet a princess, or get my picture taken in a *kids* attraction

if your hubby is apprehensive, show him the WDW for ADults without Kids book...it has alot of amazing ideas (almost none that apply to me, but i like being a kid at heart)

also, try TiVoing a couple Travel Channel specials, where he can see the types of attractions you will experience

and my last bit of advice: we went for 16 days (on property at the Caribbean Beach Resort, so moderate) plus paying for our own food (FD doesnt work for us, we like to choose exactly where and what we want to eat whenever) and spending about 2000 on souveniers and things of that natures and including our flight (which was about 950 bucks) we spent less than 8 grand

we also got annual passes *** we were there so long (saved about 200 dollars) and those passes saved us about 950 on our room (which was just over what the actual passes *** which was 928 i believe)

all of that took a year of research, planning and deal finding....but we didnt skimp or do without once (we ate at Victoria and Albert's for my birthday, that was about 400 dollars, and Fulton's another day which was just over 100 for the 2 of us plus countless table service, counter service and snack carts) the trick is, you can share alot of things (my husband and i are fat, love food and have VERY different tastes, and we still shared at least one meal a day because the portions were large and they suited both of us)

one other thing about saving monies: always estimate larger than you plan, and you might be pleasently surprised when you save money every day (i know technically you arent really saving if you spend what you thought you would, BUT the mind set of i didnt spend the maximum does make you less stressed about it)
 

I'm subscribing to this. I'm having the hardest time convincing DBF that we really will have fun....he hasn't been to WDW since he was about six, and he turned 30 in December. Hopefully reading this thread will change his mind!:confused3
 
:) DH went in 1976. I had never been. We do not have children. He took me for the first time when I was 32 and he was 36, it was 2002. it is a must do every year for both of us. He is a manly man, a firefighter.....loves the place.....he likes photography so I give him all the time he wants to take his pics then we meet for a meal. Of course we do rides and stuff together but we do not mind letting the other sleep late and meet up at some point in the day.

My Number 1 suggestion would be:

Leave a PassPorter or UG to Disney book by the toilet or near the potty. He couldn't help but flip through it. Leave a pen attached to it so you both can mark what you want to do while you are there. Just don't tell him you are leaving it there...just let him pick it up on his own. I am not kidding ,the book will have his undivided attention.:thumbsup2

#2:
If he has an Itouch you can get Disney Apps for it.

Don't push it and let the trip unfold for both of you. Have a wonderful time.:banana:
 


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