Did you know yours was coming?
Had you hinted it would be the most magical engagement for you?
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I really hope its my turn soon....
I think I must have been more surprised by an engagement than anyone else on Earth!
I've known my fiancee for almost 5 years (My company is a client of his video production studio!), but we have only been dating since June 2006. When we met, I knew he had a girlfriend that he had lived with for a long time (several years by the time we met). They never got married, so I just figured they were the kind of people that didn't feel the need to "make it legal". In Spring 2006, we were out with some friends (our business relationship had become a friendship) and he mentioned that he was going to get his own place because his relationship wasn't really going anywhere. So, like, a minute later we were dating. I knew he was fresh post-breakup and I had been through a divorce a few years earlier, so we started out very casual. But as time went by, we were having so much fun, and before we knew it we had been dating over a year. Our relationship became more serious, but I still had him pegged as a perpetual bachelor. And knowing that he had lived with a girl sooooo long and never proposed - I was NOT ABOUT to mention the "M" word.
So, last Christmas, I invited him to come along on my traditional Christmas at Disney trip. It's something that I do with my son about every other year. We had an awesome time! When we came home, we were pretty much inseparable and made the decision to move in together.
Our lives became hectic and we were quickly whining to each other about needing another vacation. As luck would have it, Disney released the fall "free dining" discount right before his birthday in April. So I took a deep breath, bought us a couple of plane tickets, and put a deposit on the resort. For his birthday, I bought a book called "The Grown Ups Guide to Walt Disney World" and slipped the reservations inside. How tacky of me to buy him a birthday gift that was so completely self-serving!? But he LOVED it!!! He was so excited! He called everybody we knew to tell them about it and we spent the rest of the weekend making dining reservations and tour reservations.
Things took a crazy turn in July when Brian was diagnosed with cancer very unexpectedly. He had to have radical surgery right away. It was scheduled for August 4th, exactly one month before we were scheduled to go to Disney. We mentioned the trip to Brian's surgeon who INSISTED that we keep the reservations and make the trip. He assured us that Brian would be in great shape to go and the timing worked perfectly because he wouldn't be able to begin chemotherapy treatments until 6 weeks post-op anyway. Brian is so determined and he pushed himself to recover quickly. His doctor said that each day he was making two days worth of progress. It was amazing!
So about a week before we were supposed to go, a bunch of tropical storms and hurricanes came one right after another, Gustav, Hanna, Ike, and it appeared all-but-certain that our trip just wasn't going to happen. I was getting very depressed. Lucky for us, Hanna stalled in the ocean, and didn't bother us at all. As a matter of fact, I don't think I've ever seen more perfect weather in Florida as I saw the day we arrived on September 4th.
When we checked into our resort, we changed into clothes for a portrait session that I had scheduled for us at the Yacht and Beach Club resort. Brian told me that he knew I had other plans in mind, but could we please go over to the Magic Kingdom and get our photo made in front of the castle. For all we knew, the weather could be really bad the rest of the week. How could I say no to that?
So we got to MK only to realize that it was just about time for the 3:00 parade. There were people lined up on both sides of the street. I asked the photographer if it was too late to have our photo made and she said she'd be happy to take our photo. So I started to pose when Brian ran off suddenly and started whispering in the photographer's ear. Next thing I knew he was down on one knee with a ring in his hand. I was SHOCKED!!! We never discussed marriage or getting engaged or anything like that!
He told me that it's something he had planned ever since I gave him the itinerary on his birthday! Needless to say, the rest of the trip was amazing! It took a few days for reality to set in. It was very very surreal.
I told him that there was no way that he was getting out of this without wearing a Mickey Mouse top hat - assuming our Honeymoon would be at Disney. But, he quickly started talking about having a wedding at Disney in the Wedding Pavilion. He insists that it shouldn't be done any other way.
Am I the luckiest girl in the world, or what?!?!
I certainly do hope that your turn is soon . . . But, I also hope that it's a complete surprise and doesn't happen in a way that you're expecting. Best wishes for a magical proposal
