Here are my thoughts about where we all can meet up!
The Wonder and Magic had the Promenade Lounge on Deck 3 Midship in between Lumiére's/Triton's and Parrot Cay. I thought this would be a good spot to meet since there was a lot of room to mingle and it's not too crowded. However, after looking at the nightclubs, the Dream does not have the Promenade Lounge.
Instead, in the same place, they have a bar called Bon Voyage. The website says this about Bon Voyage: "Bon Voyage, a relaxing lounge located on Deck 3, Midship aboard the Disney Dream, is a cozy bar where families can enjoy a refreshing beverage or snack throughout the day." But since this is on Deck 3 near Guest Services and the main staircase, it could get a bit crowded around here.
Bon Voyage:
http://disneycruise.disney.go.com/ships-activities/ships/dream/nightclubs-lounges/bon-voyage
The other idea I had to meet is Waves Bar. "Waves, a sunny bar located on Deck 12, Aft aboard the Disney Dream, is a breezy spot where Guests of all ages can relax with a chilled beverage." It's designed for families in mind.
Waves:
http://disneycruise.disney.go.com/ships-activities/ships/dream/nightclubs-lounges/waves/
Please sound off and give me your thoughts and ideas!

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