I just wanted to send you a

and to let you know that I am praying for Riley to get better

I know how hard is when you do not see the light at the end of the tunnel...
I came to New York in the 80's as an exchange student from Puerto Rico, I went to Oswego State University , at the time I did not speak the language or knew anyone and it was my first experience of being away from home, I started having headaches and first paid no mind , then they got so bad that my school work started to get affected, I went to the doctor and all I was told was that it was in my head, I was too stressed, I needed to get used to a different life

, and some doctors told me that I was looking for attention

and was pretending so I believed the doctors and tried to ignore my pain and live with it. During that time I was prescribed Xanax, Valium, and a bunch of other medication
I finished school and moved to Staten Island, one day crossing Hylan Bldv (will never forget!!) I went blind and lost consciousness I was taken to Staten Island University Hospital, and there I was seen by the ER doctors that had no idea what was wrong with me , It so happen that a group of medical student were at the emergency room and because I was a "rare" case asked me if they could see me and talk to me, I first did not wanted to speak to this young kids that were not even doctors...after they saw me one of the medical student remembered discussing in class about a medical syndrome called pseudo tumor celebri... I did not fit the profile but the doctors decided to do some test and do a lumbar puncture (spinal tap) and the pressure was so high that the doctors could not believe that I still have my sight.
It's been years and I had several surgeries for shunts that do not work, last august I went to my neurosurgeon and told him something was wrong and he gave me a referral to a psychiatrist (this from the surgeon that operated me 4tims and knew my medical history) and told me to go home, the same day I was admitted to the hospital because the shunt was out of place and embedded in the wrong side of my stomach I had emergency surgery the next day, to this day is still a struggle with doctors that believe that we females "pretend to be sick" and are "looking for attention" after all this years I have yet to find the "right" doctor so I can empathize with you
On the other side

my husband had a bad headache went to the ER and was admitted for a day for testing on what turned out to be "Stressed Headache"... see

double standards...
Sorry for a long post I just wanted to let you know that some of us do understand your frustration and what you are going thru
hugs to you and Riley