DisneyMom5
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This is my first, so I am a little nervous about having the baby at a maternity center, but they are very careful throughout your pregnancy and if there is ANYTHING wrong then you will be transferred to a hospital. I am also very traumatized after my cousin had her baby in December. . . it was a hospital birth and it was scary and then the babies go to the nursery for 3-4 hours soon after being born. Her baby cried the entire 3 hours she was there, no one picked her up or took her to be fed, nothing!! It was three hours that changed my mind about hospital births. PLUS I am over weight and I don't like the chances of being pushed to c-section JUST because of that. Here's the article that got me thinking I should use a midwife: http://womeasure.wordpress.com/2006/11/16/avoiding-surgery-lowering-the-cesarean-rate-in-big-moms/
and here is the Miami Maternity center, both DH and I are very impressed with them so far. Plus it doesn't hurt that the head midwife there has delivered over 11,000 babies: http://www.miamimaternitycenter.net/
We live in a small town, so we only have a hospital, BUT up until recently midwives delivered all the babies. (They delivered my last four.)
I was very vocal about all my requests, and the hospital was very respectful of me.
But the midwives went further and advocated for me to get everything I wanted. (only nursing, no pacifiers, no drugs, no taking the baby away, etc., etc.)
Hospital vs. birth center can help, but the actual provider (doctor, nurse, midwife) makes ALL the difference!
And, I'm a VBA2Cx5 (5 vag birth after 2 c-sections), so traditional providers hate to see me coming, but the mid-wives were willing to work with me.
Sounds like you found a great place!
Self education + good providers is totally the key to a healthy, happy delivery.