Can no longer DIS at school... so, I'm a bit behind.
"Special Project", heh? Maybe it wouldn't be too bad to be
Jay's special project?

Seriously, Dene...tell the cool kids that the time lapse is all the more reason to find the right guy not just an available guy. He's out there looking for you, too, I'll bet.
God's timing, Dene. I believe good things are coming for you.
YES!!! She will! I have no doubt about it!
Awww......sweet friends!
Jay is my fantasy boyfriend... reality is something totally different. He's my friend and that's probably all it will ever amount to (except in my dreams

). I also think Jay got my hint about "not yet" (as in, I'm waiting for someone special) 'cuz he hasn't joked about it in a couple of days.
dene love your recap of the excapades at the Y. When I was a Y counselor we didnt have a hunky trainer dude. All I got was preschool fruitloop breath in morning swimming lessons and the director was arrested for being a pedophile

I like your Y much better

So do I!!!!!!
Dene - you can write a book - I'm laughing out loud, I'm engaged, and want to be with the Peeps as you tell us the story in real life... as in ME TOO ME TOO!!
"Dene' reveals that she has not had... "male companionship" in something over 15 years. Looks of shock and gasps fill the room"
No you didnt!? Really!!! Here Sandy thinks, hmmmm wonder if Jay will... 'oblige dene'... tonight??? hmmm wonder if Jay went to Spring Break crowds???
"(no exploits though, there shall be no exploits without Jay)."
Dene needs to watch some of those Spring Break exploits!!
and that one gave me chills dene - true goosebumps - see look, on my arms and my legs!!
and of course, how did we all end up here?? For a reason???
Yep, I really said that. As I mentioned before, Jay's the fantasy...
Thank you!
OK, first off....

And where are the pictures????
And second...Things do happen for a reason, you never know what this new friendship could bring to your life
I know I gotta get some pix! My description does not do him justice!
Oh Dene! I hear you on this! I know you will! And I know the feeling. In the past couple of weeks, I have really started feeling reconnected with the me I was years ago, and it is so exciting! I am getting her back for good this time! And I know for me, as I start to feel that way, it makes me want to reach that final goal even faster. I can really relate, and I'm so happy for you!
That reconnection is empowering!
Dene hon I thought about sending you this in a PM but I thought that many others here could benefit from what I am about to say as well.
Girl - I am so
proud of you. Not
just for losing the weight. But for finally loving yourself enough to take control of your habits and mold them into something positive. Yes you have had a support group. Yes you have Hunky trainer dude.

BUT most importantly, you have Dene' who is a beautiful, intelligent, funny woman.
Then she started losing weight, and you should see her now.... Your story was hilarious and touching and at the end I know there is a happy ending.
But please know that "male companionship" is not the measure of the woman. When the right man comes along you will know it. But he cant see you if you don't love yourself. So your stepping out into the new world you are seeing with fresh new eyes, its just one baby step in the way of progress. You are strong, you are motivated. You have learned to love Dene for who she is....and have decided to show her that you love her by letting her find her way in this great big world again. The rest will happen in its own time. Good Job Girlfriend. Obiwan didn't do this - Grasshopper did, You possess the power to make your goal and I know you can do it.
PS - where's the picture already?!!!???!!! Whats he want an special invite?

hehe
I know... I never want to let a man (or anyone) "define" me again... change me from who I am to who they want me to be.
Picture... I know, I need to work on it some more... "Now, Jay?" "How about now?" "Picture time yet?" Darn, wish someone would have a party... people tend to take pictures at parties, not when you're "hanging out".
DENE-if you are around...
Stay safe! I see on the news here that there is a bad storm near Granbury, and they say it is very possibly becoming a tornado.
The really bad weather usually misses us, so I dont think it is headed my way. But it has been raining all day here.
There was some damage in Pecan Plantation (subdivision north of Granbury)... one of my students said her house was on the news on 3 different channels... and tonight my mom called to say she saw my HS BF on the news because her store in Denton had flooding/water damage.
Harley what you posted to
Dene took my breath away -

it was so what I was thinking, but didnt know how, or if I should say it... blessings to you!
I do hope one day Dene that I can be at that place - you've worked so very hard, you and
Lynda to... almost like the lil engine that could.. you have this goal and you just hang in there, and fight for you... one day at a time... its not been easy... its been work... in the meantime, I've been flitting, floating, whining, cheesing... then one day I look at your post in admiration... wondering if "someday" I'll get there too!!
You WILL get there! Come on, we're going together!
I also wanted to echo Sandy's comments about how eloquent Harley's comments to Dene' were. HARLEY, YOU ROCK!
Dene', your story was a classic!!! Yes. Vicarious living at it's finest!
Happy I could help! And congrats on the new bling!
A note from Dr. Phil:
Sandy, what's holding you back? You CAN be there too!!!! You're just as worth while as any of us. Just as worthy. Just as beautiful, inside and out!!! Stop listening to the negative self-talk. You've got all the tools we have. Listen to your heart, not your head. You've got support and friends who love ya!!!
So good, I thought it should be repeated!
Ok so I tried on my "one size down jeans" last night for the first time since losing the 7lbs. Still don't fit BUT they are a tad easier to get into. I really don't like any of them..they are all low rise from my single days on match.com!!!
I just need to fit into them again for spite.
But, I'm starting anew... again... I have Wendy in my head telling me no negative self talk... I have Dene running ahead of me - can you see her? I do... its inspiring me to run to the next tree... then walk... now see Dene... run to the end of that block,
but then I heard her hunky trainer dude asking to run just to the next mailbox, then walk...
and I did it11

Got 2 miles in at 23 min!!
Doesn't he have a great voice?
It feels good to have someone "worry" about you!
Yes, it does...
OK, I'm no Dene, but I have a great cable guy story: He was working on our living room TV. Then I heard him go to the backyard to work under the house. I took a shower, and DH had put the scales in the hallway

. I opened the door and asked if anyone was around. No answer. I stepped out in my bra and panties to weigh and said, "Hi cable guy!" to be silly because i thought my husband was in the living room.

It was the cable guy in the living room, and DH and the kids were in the backyard. I ran back in the bathroom so embarassed. I am not lying though; we got free cable for about 6 months after that. (That was when I was younger and more fit, needless to say).
Great story!
Sorry, no current pic...
Name: Dene' Carter (Dene' is Renee, with a "D")
Age: 43... going on 20
Birthday: 3/2/64
Location: Granbury, TX (30 miles SW of Fort Worth)
Occupation: Science Teacher (currently 9th grade biology)
Personal: Widow for 15 years, DD19 is in college, starting to actually have a personal life now
Total weight to lose from starting point: uhhh, dunno 'cuz I haven' picked a goal weight yet... probably between 170-200 lbs total to lose (putting me between 130-160)
Progress so far: 77 lbs
Method: lots of exercise, lots of healthy food, lots of water, lots of support (both imaginary and new friends)
Exercise: everyday! yoga, step/cardio, elliptical, treadmill, free weights, machine weights, exercise ball, walking in the park, etc.
Best tip: Hard work breeds success... success breeds desire... desire breeds more hard work... an UPward spiral... (and... find a hunky trainer dude)
TMI but I get gas every night after dinner..... not little ones either, big loud rip roaring, lift you out of the chair ones.
Yesterday, I FINALLY got Jay to go to Yoga with me (Christy was there, too). Somebody "passed gas" during class and Jay keeps laughing and talking about it! He's convinced it was Christy... I thought it was the instructor. They were both in the right area for where the "sound" came from.
I can no longer read DIS at school (it is now blocked)... and tomorrow I'll be packing and doing a double workout at the gym. (Packing to go to San Antonio with Christy... leaving right after school Friday. Double workout to make up for not being "allowed" to do nuttin' tonight... had sclerotherapy... 6 shots in my left leg, 25 in my right) ANYWAY, please count my 5 lbs in this Friday's total.
Love, ya'll... I'll try to get some pix (of my anyway) on my trip!