Hi cottoncandy!
I personally received my ornament exchange info over a month ago. December99 in the person who organized this - it sounds as though you may have missed a PM or something.
If you go down a couple of threads, you will find one titled Sent/Received My Ornament Exchange (or something worded like that), if you browse through the posts, currently on the next to the last page is a post from December99, down at the bottom of her post is a box on the right hand side marked PM, click on that and you'll be able to send her a message.
I did PM December99 on your behalf as well.
Sorry I can't be of more help,
Pam