Dis Breast Cancer Survivors Part IV - GAGWTA

I did not use that type of camisole. I wanted something loose that could get stained while the incisions healed. I just large sized men's shirts and pinned the drains to the shirts.

Worked for me but I did not leave the house much. For traveling soon after surgery or even just going out in public those camisoles are perfect.
 
minijeanie, my lymphedema treatments were covered by insurance because I saw a Physical Therapist who specialized in it. Maybe try this approach?
 
minijeanie - So glad you have a trip to look forward to, even though it will be bittersweet. DW is such a great place to remember and also to make new memories. Hope you make some new and special memories too. I grew up in central NJ too, in the Brunswick areas.

Laurie - Happy Graduation to your dd:cool1:. You all must be so proud of her.
How is dd2 feeling? Any more pain?

Sha - I dont know how reliable the 10 day weather forecast is, but it says it will be 90 degrees with a 40% chance of showers that Sat.

Well ds3 is more besides himself as another one of his friends got accepted into the univ. So all his cc friends are going to the univ. and he is at the comm. college nursing program so far. There is no more chocolate cake and ice cream to help him. I dont know what I can do to make him feel better. My heart breaks for him.

Happy Mothers Day to all. Have a great day no matter how you spend it

GAGWTA
 
I'm so worried about lymphedema. No signs of anything in the nodes from my MRI, but the surgeon will remove 2-3 nodes for testing. I really hope he can stop there.

Been reading non-stop at breastcancer . org . So much helpful information there.

So we got an infrared sauna, used. Steal of a deal on craigslist, and it's a really good one. Used it last night for 20 minutes at low heat, slept like a baby and my aches and pains from Sjogrens are much better today. It had really flared up since diagnosis, and I can't take anything for it since surgery is looming.

10 days. So much to get done.

Has anyone visited an integrative doctor? I found one on my health plan, and got in yesterday. She is going to help me with my suspected thyroid problems, and is going to check my hormone levels. I want to know how much estrogen I actually have left before I start taking Tamoxifen or the like!
 

Well ds3 is more besides himself as another one of his friends got accepted into the univ. So all his cc friends are going to the univ. and he is at the comm. college nursing program so far.
One thing he could consider is to not do nursing at the CC, but concentrate on getting all of his electives done, then transfer into a BSN program as a junior. I don't know if it's this way in NY, but here they have a MA Transfer program, where if it's prearranged, all credits from CC are transferred in to a 4 yr college. Again, do just electives there.
 
One thing he could consider is to not do nursing at the CC, but concentrate on getting all of his electives done, then transfer into a BSN program as a junior. I don't know if it's this way in NY, but here they have a MA Transfer program, where if it's prearranged, all credits from CC are transferred in to a 4 yr college. Again, do just electives there.

Linda - Can you read this and offer any other insight, Would be so thankful to you.

He is graduating with an AAS next week end from the cc in general studies. He is also dual enrolled at the univ. as a psych major right now. So all his electives are done and his gpa for it all was/is at least a 3.7. So he will spend another 2 years at the cc just for the RN degree and then have t transfer somewhere for the BSN. Really effectively he has lost 2 years of study, but what can you do.

I told him I will support him no matter what he decides. Also there are 3 RN to BSN bridge programs around here. One at the state univ. which I just read online that a girl with 10 years as an RN did not even get into. This will require the essay, references etc. again and then 2. Private catholic college where he was already accepted and then 3. Private catholic college where oldest ds graduated from. I am sure it will be $$$.

So effectively its gonna take him at least 6 years to get something that should take 4.
 
Linda - Can you read this and offer any other insight, Would be so thankful to you.

He is graduating with an AAS next week end from the cc in general studies. He is also dual enrolled at the univ. as a psych major right now. So all his electives are done and his gpa for it all was/is at least a 3.7. So he will spend another 2 years at the cc just for the RN degree and then have t transfer somewhere for the BSN. Really effectively he has lost 2 years of study, but what can you do.

I told him I will support him no matter what he decides. Also there are 3 RN to BSN bridge programs around here. One at the state univ. which I just read online that a girl with 10 years as an RN did not even get into. This will require the essay, references etc. again and then 2. Private catholic college where he was already accepted and then 3. Private catholic college where oldest ds graduated from. I am sure it will be $$$.

So effectively its gonna take him at least 6 years to get something that should take 4.
I'm sorry, I didn't realize he was finished with general classes.

I would NOT favor getting a second associate's degree. No way, no how. His days of CC are over! (And a strong congratulations to him, btw, on a job well done!)

He needs a BSN and should move forward with that IMO if he wishes to be a nurse.

I would also not favor getting a psych degree, then doing a bridge to BSN, either.

I would find a BSN program that he could get into. I know you all can do it. Keep looking!

Just thought of a story to tell you. Someone I've worked with had his heart set on going to one of the top nursing programs in the country. We had some good light hearted disagreements about that many times, my feeling being what does it matter where you go, etc. But it was his dream. He had another degree already and worked as an aide with us. He applied and many of us wrote letters of recommendation for him, thinking he'd surely get in with all of his qualifications and recommendations from staff at a top hospital. Well guess what? He didn't get in. And he was devastated. I even asked him if he was ready to go somewhere else and he said No, he still wanted to go there. So he shlepped another year with us and thankfully, this year, he got in and will be going in the fall. Now this wouldn't have been the way I would do it or that I'd recommend my children do it, but it worked for him. But my point is to persevere regardless. My sister was a professional student and she had a way of getting into whatever school she wanted. She taught me to just keep at it and do a good job at whatever else you're doing and eventually things will work out in your favor. I had to do it myself when I went to a popular nursing program. I'd transferred in and it was a bit of a cluster, but I just enrolled in the classes I needed and low and behold, right before the year started, they accepted me into the program. Thankfully I'd stuck it out. So I think he can do it but he'll have to just stick it out and it may take a little while. He can PM me if he wants if I can help with anything.
 
Sha - I dont know how reliable the 10 day weather forecast is, but it says it will be 90 degrees with a 40% chance of showers that Sat.

its pretty accurate, but I wouldnt be surprised if it changes. Hoping that the rain clears out before the weekend like it did for this one. We had a front come through last night. Its GORGEOUS today!
 
Had my first screening at the high risk centre yesterday and the radiologist found some calcifications on my left breast. Also, since my last mammo was done somewhere else, the couldn't confirm that the mass in my left breast is the same cyst I had, and because I had some clear fluid leak out of my left breast after my second round of squeezing, so I have to go back for a follow up ultrasound. Sigh. Its probably fine, but I still feel worried:(

Saw the oncologist today and she was very matter of fact. She said I was the healthiest patient she had and not her priority,but since my oopherectomy was a short surgery, she would probably be able to squeeze me in fairly soon, maybe before my trip in July!

Scared of bc, and now I'm seriously considering a mastectomy. Don't know when though. Will wait and see how the ultrasound goes, my MRI in August, follow up mammo in Sept. and February. I'm just emotionally and physically drained and its finally hitting my dh who has been a rock and he is now feeling very depressed.

Thanks for all the support here. The people at the high risk centre were amazing and truly made me feel like I was more than just a patient, not just a statistic.
 
Slg, I am glad you liked the breast center, but sorry you have to go back for more testing. It sounds like they are being very thorough and that is a good thing, although I know how difficult this is.

I am sorry the surgeon was so matter of fact. It is good to know that you are in such good health and that it no doubt means you will recover well.

Cancer is a family disease. I am not too surprised your husband is down. There are support groups for family members too, but I am not sure about on line.

I hope you have a chance to regroup and recover from being exhausted. You went through a lot Thursday and Friday. Give yourself time to take a deep breath. I think waiting for upcoming tests and appointments are one of the worst things related to this disease.

Happy mother's day to you and everyone one this thread.
 
I think waiting for upcoming tests and appointments are one of the worst things related to this disease.
So True!

Happy mother's day to you and everyone one this thread.
Happy Mother's Day!

Right now my DS is making me breakfast :faint: :rotfl2: and then we are off for a great day of baseball! :goodvibes

What is everyone doing today?
 
On my way to the apPle store, lol.

My NEW happy place.

Yesterday I made gumbo and crawfish ettouffe to freeze for the party. Big batches. Big mess.

Going to a ball game sounds more fun to me!
 
Happy Mother's Day ladies!!!
 
Sha, give my best to Mom.

I am home, DH is barbecuing chicken breasts, and I am kicking back. Found a nice shirt with SPF protection at TJMaxx in a vibrant melon color. Just the ticket for our trip.
 
Happy Mothers Day to everyone too!

Laurie - I am like you - kicking back while they will grill later.

Linda - have fun at the baseball game

Sha - see you soon!

I am enjoying my gifts and cards from the ds, 3 bunches of nothing, nothing and more nothing:rotfl2:

Well after me cooking lunch and ds1 asking if he had to make his own sandwhich I decided to commandeer the laptop for the ientire day.

So glad I am celebrating my b day in Disney World. :) I dont think I will be buying the ds much of anything. I am sure they will understand. Maybe I will be nice and get them a mickey rice crispy and some mickey gummies.

GAGWTA
 
Glad you will be in Disney for your birthday. Wish we were having tea like last year.
 
This is going to be the first year I do not go to Disney to do any celebration of my birthday, even if before or after as I have done the past few years. Unless I do something this trip.... or go for the day over MD weekend... I may need to run down for a few hours after it for it... lol

Yes see you soon LMP
 
Had an eventful Mother's day. Mom came over and we barbecued. Dh surprised me with the new iPad. Mom and I watched the slideshow, and I helped her with a some issues with her phone. After she left DH helped me set up the ipad. I am still am getting his calendar reminders but the awesome thing is that I synced the sideshow in high def to my iPad

It looks wonderful on this screen. And our sharing issue is solved as my BIL has an adaptor that we can use along with a HDMI cable ago to show the slideshow on my friend's projector tv in New Orleans Sunday.

I can' t tell you how much time we have spent trying to figure out the best way to share this thing, we could show it on his old Sony laptop, but we were unable to get it to hook up to the tv, my attempts to export it to a DVD since it is such a big file have been unsuccessful at least in high definition.

So DH is getting some credit from this weekend.

I am a happy camper.
 
Neat, Laurie! What a great gift! :goodvibes My DD bought herself an iPad last year and loves it! We are going to get my DH one for Father's Day.
 












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