Dis Breast Cancer Survivors Part III - GAGWTA!

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PNM How'd the pool party go?
It was HOT!! :scared1: I guess I got a bit of a late start to go to the grocery store, lol, so in the midst of putting groceries away and emptying the dishwasher, etc, people began showing up! :eek: I also had technical difficulties with the grill so it took 1/2 hrs in the sun trying to cook the hot dogs. Uggh. (We bought a sun shade for the deck but haven't put it up yet.) BUT, the kids had a blast and were going all day. These guys have literally all been good friends since K so they get along great and there are never problems behavior wise; it's just fun. They were beat last night! Thankfully we had a thundershower that cooled off the whole area last night. It is truly feast or famine around here. We go right from winter to summer, very little in-between.
 
Good morning ladies

Cheryl - so glad to hear from you, but so sorry to hear you are having so many problems. I am sure it is frustrating. Its great that you can let it out here, we are here to listen and to give you a :hug: too. I like the smoothie and cream soup suggestions too. Or maybe a pureed soup etc? Maybe your body needs a little break to recover and you can regroup your thoughts too etc. Hang in there, I am sure its so tough right now. There were times too when I thought I couldnt see the light at the end of the tunnel. Keep fighting tough. My thoughts and prayers are with you as always

Lisa - that is so awesome that you got to swim.

Candy - the dress is beautiful. Your mom did a great job. I hope the party turns out wonderful. I can see also why your dd was saying no cap and gown. I love the picture of your ds and dd together.

Sha - hope you have a wonderful week end too. You are not being self centered. I love reading about what is going on in your life. Magic and happiness is good. So he is the pirate: and I guess you will be the princess:, hmm, now only disney has to bring back the pirate and princess parties:)

Linda - sounds like a fun and busy day for you. Its great when all the kids get along together. Makes it so much easier

Laurie - I think you will be the energizer bunny again this week end. You sure will have alot to post when the week end is over. Have a great time with your db and a great time at the reunion and I hope your organization gets some funding. I am sure they need it badly in this economy.

Well tomm dh leaves for china. Good as things are a disaster there right now he says. I have been reading Elizabeths trip report. Yest. I laughed as her ds and my middle ds both have the exact same shirt! I think I am going to devote alot of time to prepping my teaching material and going over the lessons as that is about 5 weeks away. In 6 days the testing starts. I told dh I am not cooking then as those shots usually make me sick etc.

Hope everyone has a great week end

GTAGWTA
 
Cheryl - Sorry to hear you're having such a bad time. :hug: There are so many patients receiving fluids when I have my chemo. I didn't realize that was such a problem. Some of them talk about Ensure working for them, but I have no personal experience with it. As for the diarrhea, the only thing that ever worked for me was fresh baked coconut macaroons. Feel better soon!:)
 
Sha: Any updates????????

Sha - hope you have a wonderful week end too. You are not being self centered. I love reading about what is going on in your life. Magic and happiness is good. So he is the pirate: and I guess you will be the princess:, hmm, now only disney has to bring back the pirate and princess parties:)

Hope everyone has a great week end

GTAGWTA

Thank you LMP.... really need to be getting some work done in the office so I can pack and leave as planned tomorrow on vacation. Not sure if that is going to happen though. Was much harder for me to leave knowing he wasn't going to be that close now. I didn't cry in front of him... well, not exactly but it was okay. I don't know still where anything stands and that is okay. I still will treasure those few days forever. K and I had a fun time last night. He is a fun little man with a wide imagination. R. was good to me and that is all that matters.
 

Cheryl - so sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time. I hope you are doing better soon. Everyone has given some great advice about smoothies. I wish some of the current options had existed 20 years ago when I had jaw surgery. I was on a liquid diet for six weeks while I was wired shut. I was pretty limited to milkshakes and Carnation instant breakfast.

I hope everyone has a great weekend. Not wonderful weather here and I am off to a graduation party today. I need an extra 200 miles of driving on my day off! But it is a niece that I am quite fond of so I am going.
 
GAGWTA ladies!

So much to comment on!

Cheryl :hug: please do "let it out" here !! We are here for you. Sending you many hugs and tummy-soothing thoughts. The other ladies give good advice on the smoothies, etc!

Candy, love the pictures!! thanks for sharing!!

Pea-I cracked up at this:
Remember - I had a really long time to think about it.
:rotfl: I say that when I show people our master bedroom :lmao:
It sounds like your pool is THE place for the kids to be :thumbsup2 The crazy weather nationwide has me a bit panick-y during thunderstorms here lately. I have friends in central Mass, much devastation with the tornadoes :sad2:
And too true about going from winter to summer, with very little spring! We have a bumper mosquito infestation this year....ughh


Sha....:lovestruc enjoy this! :hug: I am thrilled for you.

Laurie, you keep popping into my head lately, maybe DH and I need a NOLA trip or something!!

All is well here. "cept those pesky bugs really interfering with enjoying the outdoors.
We're big hockey fans, usually more college than pro, but cheering for our Boston Bruins in the Stanley Cup finals. Praying for my dad in heaven (whose name was Stanley BTW ;) ) to use any intervention he can up there to bring the Cup back to Boston!

Thinking of you all.....
 
Good afternoon ladies

PatsMom - wow that sure is a lot of driving! I guess everything is so spread out around there. I dont think I would do well there, I am too much a city girl. I hope the party was nice.

Enjoying reading Elizabeths trip report

Is the week end over yet? Well I wish it was. Lets just say I want this to be forgetable. Lat night dh calls and says ds19 can go and meet him when he is in Seattle and San Francisco. This is for 2 days at the whopping price of $730 plus the limo $230 including tips. So that is like over $900 for 2 days. Dh said its important to spend time together, life is short etc. I said, yeah please dont do this . Cant you take them to Great Adventure. Its like half price with the hotel etc. So I begged dh not to do this. He did. He will have to deal with me when he comes home. I dont feel like arguing on the phone from China, nothing but wasting $$. It will not be pretty. Then ds23 is not speaking to me because of some clothes war wearing ds21 stuff etc. I want an empty nest!! It will be peaceful and quiet then for sure. I dont see them flying off anytime soon unfortunately. Ds23 refuses to pay us rent of any kind. I told dh, fine then if and when he gets married there will be a small gift...

and speaking of gifts. I got invited to a baby shower for the girl whos wedding ds was in in Nov. The one we were not invited to the reception etc. She cashed my check, never sent a thank you. I am getting a little weary of contributing to their presents etc. I am not going to the shower. I won something in a contest and that is what she is getting. I am sure I wont get a thank you note either. Sigh, sigh.

I wish I had another chocolate bunny sitting around. I think there are some chocolate cookies somewhere:)

I am done with my venting. Continue having a great week end

GTAGWTA
 
LMP-Wow you are havn a rough weekend! Kids go through their ups and downs and moods. My Mom says that they will need you first so not to worry if they are not speaking to you! :goodvibes It seems to be a trend with this generation to not send Thank yous for gifts. We have gone to 4 grad parties over the last 4 weeks and not one thank you.

Anne- Wow I would die with all those mosquitos! I think my blood is like chocolate to them! :) How is work? Still busy? When are you not, right?!

Patsmom- Glad you are feeling well. How the grad party go?

Sha- So wonderful you had a good time. I hope things work out.

PNM- How goes the pool party?!?!?!?!

Lisa- I love your remedy for diah!!!! Better than Amonium! I remember for my kids they told you the BRAT diet. Bananas, Rice, Applesauce and Toast!

I am going crazy with the party but am trying to keep organized. I have all my booths in containers and working on getting the last of the food. My inlaws are coming in on Friday and Saturday. I work a party on Friday after work and then I have all day Saturday to get ready. The party is on Sunday. I have to get the music list to the DJ my brother. Any music suggestions for teenage girls. Yes we have Justen Bieber already! :rotfl2:My neice and I are working on that. I was invited to a grad party on Saturday but I don't think I can make it! I will have a house full of family and they get real offended if you do something while they visit or even if we go to visit them.
 
lmp :hug: I hope things start to look up for you. It must be hard to have your DH away so much.

Ann, I hear you on the mosquitos, Sista. For some reason they are GIGANTIC this year! :scared1: And have I mentioned I HATE mosquitos? :scared: Wouldn't it be nice to have a tiny little bit of good weather without THEM? :guilty:

We had a terrible weekend weather wise. Rainy and cold. DS managed to get in a morning double header on Saturday but he missed another on Sunday and two practices for his summer team which is just starting. All the boys were :mad: they would have played anyway, lol. But field conditions rule. Of course it's pretty nice out right now. :rolleyes1

Candy, your DD is graduating from 8th grade, right? I guess I'll be in the same boat next year! We went to an indoor/outdoor HS grad party at a beautiful place on Sat and it was a really nice time. They had family and friends in the afternoon, then the kids came later. They had a DJ till midnight and all of the graduates could stay overnight (with chaperones). It was a little rainy and cold outside but DH and I managed to find some hot coffee and a toasty spot by the firepit while the kids were still in the water and running around. :cold:

FYI for those of you who enjoy photography I've finally got the 2011 Summer Scavenger Hunt up and running on the Photography Board. Hope to see some of you joining in. :goodvibes

GAGWTA
 
We had a great time at the grad party. Unfortunately it rained so quite a few people did not show up even though the house was open and my brother bought rain tents. It was also chilly. But it was a nice party. I have a baby shower to go to next Sunday and next Saturday I have to go back to my office. Both of those are two hundred mile drives too. If it wasn't for staying at my mother's during the week and working two days a week from home, I think the driving would make me insane! Books on CD help. I get some from my library and my mother checks me out some from her town library which is larger than mine.

LMP - sounds like your DH is really trying to tick you off! It is nice that he wants to spend time with your DS but I have to agree that they could bond closer to home. My DH wants to take my step daughter and our daughter to see the Red Sox this fall. It will cost a fortune! I suggested a minor league ball club but I think he is doing to do what he wants!

Candy - I hope that you have a great party. Sounds like you have done so much work on it!

NHAnn is correct about the bumper crop of bugs this year. Not too many mosquitos up north yet but the black flies were particularly vicious this year.
My husband has been trying to do yard work between rain storms and has been chewed up really badly. Fortunately he doesn't have a real bad reaction to the bites.

A week from tomorrow is my quarterly cystoscopy to check for cancer recurrence. If there is no sign of any cancer, I'll have three more rounds of maintenance treatment. If there is cancer, it will be back to surgery. Its usually about a week before that I start getting twitchy.

Hope everyone has a good week!
 
Hugs to LMP. Im sorry but that is just poor taste/class for not writing a thank you note. I don't blame you one it for the planned gift you have for her.

Talked to Laurie a bit yesterday via text. Am away with mom. Saw R. last Thursday night and we left together so he could get home. It was really nice to see him and will see what happens. I really do miss him and that little guy is something. I have his father's day card to write in and get mailed out and a thank you note to a friend. Lazy day today I think. Had planned to go walk and swim but didn't.

I hope to come up with something like a flyer for the walks I am doing. And then for some shirts. May take a sharpie to write names on them or else write on ribbons and safety in the names on the shirts? Thoughts on the shirts?

Lost part of my message... will come back later.

 
Good afternoon ladies

Anne,Linda and Pats Mom - We havent gotten the mosquitos yet too bad. I did buy ds a bottle of bug spray for the pool as he works till 8:30pm, prime time for the bugs!. i do worry about them here because of the west nile virus

PatsMom - wishing you all the best with the upcoming testing.

Sha - a card is nice! I love to get and send cards.

Candy - I am clueless on the music. The stuff the ds listen to gives me headaches, like all the hip hop stuff, especially ds21. Worse, they know every single word etc. I am sure the party will be wonderful!

Laurie - hope you had a great but busy week end I am sure.

Cheryl,Lisa and Smiley - thinking of you all and hope you are all feeling ok

Shh, its so quiet here. They all are gone. :banana:. But I think ds21 returns home in about an hour.

Havent heard from dh, oh well

I am :confused3 right now as is ds23. He got a call on his cell, so I know someone else gave out his number. He was not happy about that. It was a family in our neighborhood who goes to our church, oh and this family WAS invited to that wedding reception, but they are bffs. Well they asked ds23 to dog sit their dog. I dont know if its actually sleeping over or just going over since its in the neighborhood. Well ds works 3 jobs, doesnt like dogs too much, doesnt like the family either etc. I dont know why they didnt ask ds21, hmm, they probably like him just about as much as they like me, oh and did I mention the mom never helped cook a meal for me etc, and lives like 3 blocks away. :confused3

I have a school meeting tomm. night. I am sure it will be doom and gloom but I have been praying alot for sure. Sadly in this economy, I am sure some tough and hard decisions will have to be made. I dont think its fair to wait to the last minute for the students, families and teachers etc.

GTAGWTA
 
Just a quick message... heading over the mountain today to see Miss Lee. Will be a bit hard visit I think. She lost her husband about a month ago now. Isn't doing well with him not being there.
 
Give our best to Miss Lee, Sha.

The going over the mountain phrase evokes a pretty wonderful image. Enjoy your time off.
 
Thinking of you, Cheryl, and hoping you are getting some good input from your oncologist.

Patsmom, I sure understand your term "twitchy." It is a very apt descriptive word for the feeling of worrying about that upcoming test.

Hope you can find things to divert the mind and soul.

Maryann, I am sorry you are having so much conflict right now. The tests you are soon facing does not make this any easier for you either, as like Patsom, I am sure it is weighing heavily on you.

I think it is wonderful that you attend those meetings for the school, like the one tonight, even after your sons have graduated from the school. Maybe they will have a solid plan to make it work again for next year. I hope you are able to go, I know you have much to contribute to the process.

I had a whirlwind weekend. Too much work-day long team meeting on Friday, the day I intended to spend with my brother Tom. We did have an amazing meal that night, as I may have already posted-he timed his short visit so we have crawfish, crabs and shrimp at their peak. We had boiled seafood family style that we shared, along with oyster and shrimp poorboys for lovers of the fried stuff, and a nice seared tuna salad for my DD15.

I did have to go and support my organization at the state Senate hearing on Saturday, which meant 5 plus hours of waiting. I finally left since my extended family was waiting for me at yet another restaurant (nottime to cook for Tom this time he visited). Then off quickly to New Orleans for my 40th high school reunion. They had a fantastic turnout-I think about 60% of the 111 total graduates, with about 80 percent out of state. Lots of spouses too. Had a great venue with a DJ, fairly good south Louisiana food, and subdued lighting (rather than the institutional bright lights at DH's 40th reunion Last Saturday, Ugh).

We all look better in subdued lighting.

It was great to see everyone, and some of the ladies are already planning the 45th!

Oh my. Many were staying in several hotels in the garden district so after the reunion we "repaired" to a hotel within walking distance of the hotels the out of towners had booked that has a great huge porch with lots of tables and chairs and serves drinks.

It had rained right when we left the first joint, but the weather cooled off and was wonderful (for New Orleans in June anyway and hey no bugs!!!!).

We had a blast until about midnight then opted to crash at my friend's house across the river from the French quarter for the night. Had made prior arrangements with her just in case we had a late night.

Wierd having no luggage and no Cpap machine for DH :eek:, but we managed like a couple of younguns.

Ah to be young and adventurous at 57 going on 27, eh?

It was interesting to see the alums and how they prospered and aged since our 30th reunion. That one was a sitdown dinner at a fine restaurant in the French quarter so the food was better, but this event was arranged for better milling around and visiting everyone.

I was left with the thought that DH and I are doing pretty well physically, despite ( or perhaps because of) cancer, thyroid disease, high blood pressure (me) and sleep apnea, heart disease and diabetes (DH).

Hey at least we don't have the same stuff so it makes it more interesting.

Earlier in the day many of the alums toured the old school (circa early 1800's) which has really deteriorated. The school was actually not great back in 1968 when we started there and it had been in existence as a magnet high school for only about 7 years. It was high and dry during Katrina due to its lcoation uptown and on high ground by the Mississippi river levee, but suffers from 50 years of neglect and non-maintenance. One alum told me he never wanted to see it again, it was too painful.

I get to pass by the building often as it is around the corner from Tulane where DD21 attends college. The entrance of the school (used lately for a small primary school) still looks grand with its huge tall white peeling columns, but the interior-oh my.

I think it will be leveled, but maybe they will gut it and try to salvage it. Not sure of its historical value, really, other than to alums of the magnet high school which actually relocated about 20 years ago to a new facility by the lake front.

Take care, all!
 
Laurie - It sounds like you had a great time at your reunion. I'm glad you were both able to enjoy it. Good thing you're not in Florida right now - it has been unbelievably hot without any rain. Drought conditions worsening by the day. I'm listening to thunder right now, but I'm sure it won't rain in The Vortex since it so rarely does.

MaryAnn - Sorry you are dealing with so much right now. Hope things get better for you soon!

PatsMom - Too bad the weather didn't cooperate for your grad party. I'm sure you had fun anyway.

Pea-n-me - What's up with the unpredictable weather in your neck of the woods?

I managed to go to two graduation parties last week and went out to lunch with my best friend last Friday. I'm back up to 75 laps in the pool. It helps keep my mind off everything.
 
Give our best to Miss Lee, Sha.

The going over the mountain phrase evokes a pretty wonderful image. Enjoy your time off.


Definitely a good day and going over Afton Mtn was good today. Learned it is one of the top 5 foggiest mountains to cross and very dangerous at its worst. Last year wasnt good weather but went slow. Had a great view of the mountains at one point but couldnt stop there for pictures. I post some on FB a bit ago. Had a real good visit with Miss Lee and overall she is doing well. She misses her husband of course, but doesn't wish him back how he was. I told her about the walks I am doing and while sitting there at the Depot in Staunton, I ended up drawing on the table with crayons and came up with a bit of a logo. Again, that is on FB. Hope I can get it to here to share too. Since my laptop crashed probably for good... I have to figure out other ways to do pictures. Can't edit on my netbook.

Miss Lee said everything cancer wise is doing well. She goes every 4 months to UVA to the Emily Couric building (after Catie Couric's late sister. I use to see her walking around Cville in her red trench coat). She said the women's cancer area is really nice. Each exam room has their own bathroom and dressing area so a woman can clean up again after an examination, etc. Sounds like someone got it right. Her doctor is way up there too top something in the nation. I think I would make a trip to him for another opinion.
 
Good afternoon ladies

Laurie - I am glad you had a good time at the reunion and spending some quality time with your brother too. I am sure your family was glad to see him.

Sha - that mountain trip must have had breath taking scenery. So happy to hear Miss Lee is doing well and that you had an enjoyable visit with her.

Lisa - so glad to hear you got to go to the parties, had a nice lunch out and sounds like your swimming routine is great! I just bob because I cant raise my L arm in the water any more to actually swim a stroke etc. Keep up the great work and work out routine!

PatsMom - I am sure you are getting anxious too but the party is a good diversion. Hope you have a great time.

Shh. its quiet here again and I am so:). Love the peace and quiet. Ds19 went to the beach before class tonight. He got a 87 on his microbiology exam and ds21 is at class too. Dh comes home tonight. Tomm. is the testing. He has a meeting tomm might. I told them he probably wont be there. We will see. Also the shot friday and then sat. he has to go do a tour for some big wigs that are coming in.

My meeting was so good last night. Had a guy come in to speak. He is a school parent but his background and ideas just blew me away. I just hope we get on board with all this stuff, mostly internet advertising and social media stuff which would be free as we have no money to advertise etc. I think we might be able to get by with a miracle from God. Due to enrollment I think we will have to let go of 1 pre school teacher and aide. Unless something happens later in the summer. Just praying all goes well.

GTAGWTA
 
Snappy- What a busy weekend! I am glad you had fun at the reunions. Oh to be young again! Nice to be 27 again!!!! LOL My DH has a CPap too! It's like an American express card....Don't leave home w/o it!

Lisa-Glad you are feeling well enough to venture out! :)

PNM-yes DD is going to HS. That is more scary to me than anything else. It's in town of the city. She is such a caring and sweet girl, I get nervous thinking about her venturing dwntwn. We worked a grad party last weekend and it rained the whole time. I felt bad for the girl but they had games going on inside. And later brought out heaters. How's the pool action? Have you gotten in yet?

PatsMom-Praying for a good report w ur cysto! Keep us posted.

Anne- How are you doing?

LMP-Glad your meeting went well and I hope you are able to get all the advertising and $ you need. I hope you can keep the teacher and aide. I'll b praying too! Enjoy your quiet house! :love:

So now all the last minute RVSP's are coming in and they are trying to add more people. " I only invited 4 so only 4 can come. " "No you can't bring your stepdaughters great nephew." "I am sorry but I don't have room for your 2nd cousins nephew either." UGGGHHHHHH!!! These are the same people that will take a plate home but not bring anything. Next graduation, I think I will just give her money.

GTAGWTA
 
I know its a little early, but I dont know when I will get on tomm. so...


HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHA:rockband::cake:party::bday::bday::cake::cake:



Hope you have a wonderful day, a year filled with happiness and dreams come true!!
 
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