I agree. I love SL but would not pay extra for Golden Forest. The rooms are almost the same as normal ones, breakfast is the same and to be honest the queue to meet characters is never that long and it is the same characters that everyone can meet that come round to the GF breakfast room.
We are staying Castle Club in october and will really make use of the free drinks all day plus afternoon tea, but I know we would not be bothered to walk all the way back to SL for the same. One extra fast pass would also not sway it for me. You may even be able to pay for a Vip fastpass (60 euros) for everyone for one day, for less then the price difference between a normal or GF room so that would not sway me either.
I think if you are sure you would go back to the hotel in the afternooon for the drinks and afternoon tea, you may get your money's worth, but otherwise I would go for a normal room in SL or in the NY (or DLh of course if budget allows lol)