Difficult People

[VolleyballQt07]

do you ever have to deal with difficult people? tonight at my volleyball game, we played my friends team. we lost, again.......but, theres a girl on my team who has the BIGGEST attitude that no one can handle(not even her mom). whenever she or someone screws up, she gets mad. get over it! oh, and god please forgive me, but a good server on the other team served it and hit the girl in the chest and her being so dramatic, fell down and started crying. i cant stand her........................grr................if someone tries to give her advice, she blows you off and basically says "screw you!". i cant stand her but i try to be nice to her but lets just say, my buttons are officially pushed!


do you ever have to deal with difficult people?

 

[caitlin]

She does sound difficult.

There's some girl at my school, she's really nice to me around some people, but then when she's around others she'll be a real witch. I don't get it.

 

[BandGeek911]

Yeah, I know some difficult people. >:-[






Buuuut, I'm not the easiest person at home >:-]



But I'm an angel at school 0:-D

 

[JediDan2773]

Yeah, I realize I'm not the best person at sports, but this girl in my gym class last year was horrible at almost every sport we played. She would even try and give advice to other people, like she knew what she was doing, and just couldn't do it at all.

Sorry, that's the first time I've ever ranted about that, but it felt good.

 

[TheGirlin14G]

Me: *very lightheartedly, not condescending at all*"Hey, this part that we just sang.. I know, in the accompaniment it sounds like it should be going up to a D there but it stays on a C then goes down to a Bflat"
Difficult Person: *Phony Smile* "okay" *repetedly sings it wrong*
Ten Seconds Later on the next page of the song
Difficult Person: "Uhg! Those stupid freshmen are singing it wrong.. they're not right.. they're messing me up when I know what I'm doing!"
Me:

And then DP wonders why and complains when DP doesn't make county/district chorus

Unfortunately they're everywhere.. when anything doesn't go there way - especially if it's another person's fault - there's a big scene. I know what a pain it is to deal with.. but all you can do is be the bigger person

 

[Narnian_Princess]

I really hate when people can't do a darn thing and act like they own all.

Perfect example: this one kid at my karate school who is a beginner rank acts as though he can do EVERYTHING better than the nearly-black-belts (like me). Everyone else can see in Extreme training (where we work on gymnastic and acrobatic elements and conditioning) that he can't do anything at all. He's always landing on his backside on handsprings and letting his body sink on power pushups, giving up and being lazy during conditioning, cutting in line in front of black belts and trying to COPY the higher ranks. (They say that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery; but in this kid's case, when he takes what you do and makes it look terrible.... It's more like the sincerest form of insult.) And yet, he acts as though he thinks he's better than all of us.

We've gotten to the point where we just ignore him (unless we're behind him in a conditioning drill line and he stops; then we just go around him.) It's terrible how some people are nowadays.


Hey, ranting DOES make you feel better!

 

[pigletgirl]

Oh ya...its usually with a prep. They tend to attack you if you are an athlete because the football players are more likely to be drawn to you supposidly.

 

[CrazyChik]

i guess i can be difficult but im not that bad. and if i lose a game in sports im usually anything but surprised.

 

[Loves Disney]

My friend is EXTREMELY difficult! lol and I...well I'm just EXTREMELY tolerant, heh. She is 3rd in our class rank and with that looming over her head, she tends to believe she is far better than every one else...especially me. But I can take it...I've grown used to it. Her way is ALWAYS right and to disagree with her is to make a huge mistake...she is also the most stubborn person I know. Oh and...with her you can naturally expect to almost NEVER hear a "sorry" lol. If she doesn't want to do something, we don't do it (after withstanding over 20 minutes of arguements) and if she does want to do something, it's we either do it or she gets extremely angry and doesn't talk to you...unless of course you change your mind and do it.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Yeah, I realize I'm not the best person at sports, but this girl in my gym class last year was horrible at almost every sport we played. She would even try and give advice to other people, like she knew what she was doing, and just couldn't do it at all.
Sorry, that's the first time I've ever ranted about that, but it felt good.

i know what you mean! this girl, sucks at serving. a few ok, most fo our team sucks at serving so usually, me having club experience and being the best one on the team, they come to me for advice and 9 times out of 10, it works! she was trying to give them advice but my coach was like "******! you are in NO position to give anyone serving advice due to the fact that you can barely serve. so let me and britni (me! lol) help them and you just worry about yourself and getting your serves over!". i started cracking up when he said that. i cant believe he said that! shoot! i am louder, more "mean" to the girls than he is and he's the freaking coach! but that was hilarious!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

i'm soooo mean arent i????

 

[CrazyChik]

yes lol and i have found as irl to rant about to:

at my yard i ride a horse called murphy usually his owner goes to boarding school near london. this girl called sara who is less experienced then me now loans him out on tuesdays and sundays. so at camp in august i was ridind murphy for 3 days tuesday wednesday and thursday. so on tuesday i go and get murphy and groom and tacj=k and everything and sara was doing the camp on another horse called conker she comes up to me and goes oh let me adjust your stirrups its my horse after all yeah well it was tuesday so i forgave her coz it was supposed to be her turn but i had this camp with murph arranged for months before she loaned him out. soi come the next dy and we have to catch the horses together so i go to get murph and she goes let me catch him today hesmine and im better than you. HA BLOODY HA. i am not a great rider but my instructor will tell you i am better than her. so i calmly take the headcolar back and say not today and i am perfectly capable of catching a horse. i repeated this every time she did something like it but i was soo mad she told everyone there it was her horse and it is not dont tell her but her mum asked my instuctor if sara could have murph more but my instructor said no so i could ride him and just to rant about her she hit her toe on a tree stump when out riding and started crying for her mommy and screaming i was soo tempted to shout at her aboiut how pathetic and babyish she was but my instructor did it for me mwahaha

 

[VolleyballQt07]

hazzi, hazzi, hazzi! what are we going to do with you? lol. yes, i have met people who have been like that and no, they DO NOT get away with it after dealing with me! who takes better care of the horse? you i hope........ lol.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I know three.
One is nice sometimes, but a very aggravating person because she's self-centered and close minded.
The other is annoying, mean, hypocritical and just really, really annoying. If you were locked in a room with her, you wouldn't last ten minutes.
And another is just very competitive during gym. She will yell at you for anything that you do wrong in gym.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I know three.
One is nice sometimes, but a very aggravating person because she's self-centered and close minded.
The other is annoying, mean, hypocritical and just really, really annoying. If you were locked in a room with her, you wouldn't last ten minutes.
And another is just very competitive during gym. She will yell at you for anything that you do wrong in gym.[/QUOTE]


i know a couple of them!!!!! i am one of them but i only yell if they are told 10+ times what to do and they still screw up......usually because they are messing around and dont have a clue whats going on!

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm one of those people who despises gym and sports. If we're playing a group game, I probably won't participate (unless it's volleyball, because it's my favorite sport and I don't want the ball in my head) or pay attention. I put very little effort into gym, and I honestly don't care if my team wins or not. And having that girl yell at me for not going after the ball is annoying, especially because if I would have done something wrong with the ball if I did get it and she'd be yelling at me anyways. She's a cool kid, but I hate her in gym class.

 

[CrazyChik]

hazzi, hazzi, hazzi! what are we going to do with you? lol. yes, i have met people who have been like that and no, they DO NOT get away with it after dealing with me! who takes better care of the horse? you i hope........ lol.

lol well i have to be nice to her coz everyone at my stable hates her and my instructor needs me to be her friend when i ride with her and i love my instructor and all her horses(she might be getting one speciially for me ) so i dont ant to get into trouble but in science we learned that issace newton was:

a good mathe,matician and sientist
a nasty piece of work
held a grudge until he got revenge
you would not want to cross him

my mate said that sounded like me only i hold grudges for 2 days she said that was also a compliment

and yeah i probably do take better care i ride him on a monday after her and her tack is always stinking filthy and the numnah is always ringing with sweat coz she doesnt air it and i have to put it on por murph