We had Rev. Jack and I cannot say enough wonderful things about him! I dealt with him via e-mail and one phone call but when we met it was like we'd known him for years - he was so nice to me and got DH to relax before the ceremony. The service was exactly what we wanted. He said a remembrance prayer for my mom at the beginning of the ceremony and kept the rest of the ceremony as non-denominational and light-hearted as we wanted it to be. After the ceremony he hung out for the cake cutting, gave our toast, had a glass of cider and a piece of cake, took additional photos with us, and gave us some marriage advice from his own long marriage. I've read on other posts that he normally takes off right after the ceremony but I guess he didn't have another one after ours because he stayed for awhile and we were happy to have him there!