I gave mine a list, they also asked for it, but really it was more for the family pics. Then there were a few general like pics with each member of the BP, etc. I also asked for a lot of detail shots since I made a lot of the things for the wedding. The list wasn't very long and there were not that many specific shots. Overall I trusted them to get pictures I would like, but they couldn't be expected to know the groupings for family shots.
If there are shots you really want, let your photographer know. What you may think is a standard shot, could have been something another bride requested.