DESPERATELY need HELP for August 17

Tinkerbells Magic

Earning My Ears
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Friends of ours gave us a this cruise as a surprise and a room (that accomodates 4) as a gift on August 17. Being a family of 6, we have tried to see if we could upgrade to a larger room and the rooms have been sold out for quite sometime. (Though we have kept checking in case of any changes.)

We initially made plans for our youngest two to stay with friends (who were quite happy due to the novelty of spending the night, ice cream, presents when we got home for them, etc...). Problem is one of them is chronically ill, but stable, and the friends who initially could take her and her sister have had a family crisis arise and will not be able to keep them. We have been able to find a close friend to keep one of the girls, but not the other due to her medical issues.

Our little girl, Grace, is 3 1/2 and requires nightly shots of interferon due to medical problems she came to us with from a Cambodian orphanage 2 years ago.

We have scurried around trying to find friends she knows and trusts and we know and trust who are also trained in giving her her injections (or capable of being trained), but to no avail.

Disney has said that she can come with us, but CANNOT be registered under our room due to the room capacity of 4 and the fire marshal rules. They said the only way she could accompany us would be for "friends" to register her to their room whose occupancy rate is not already full, under OUR last name and as OUR daughter. (We pay the additional fare too ) She would only be required to be shown present in that room during the mandatory on deck fire drill on the first night of the cruise. (They want everyone lined up with life vests and at their assigned location according to room during the drill) After that she can be with us 100% of the time, as they do not care who sleeps where and she would be assigned to dine with us as well as our responsibility for the entire cruise. They said it is not uncommon that groups or large families travelling do this because of occupancy rate limitations. THE DIFFERENCE HERE IS WE HAVE NO FRIENDS OR FAMILY TRAVELLING WITH US AND NO WHERE ELSE TO TURN EXCEPT TO THIS BOARD. We are hoping for an angel.

We are HOPING and PRAYING someone out there as a family of 2 or 3 registered in a room for 4 or a family of 4 registered in a room for 5, would be willing to add her on as a FRIEND, in our last name, to their cabin so that she can accompany us and I can give her her nightly injections (which she cannot miss) and be there for her. (They injections make her a little nauseous at times.) The cruise was originally given to my husband (and our family) due to ongoing health problems my husband has had that have prevented him from being able to work and have caused major changes in our family. The idea was to lift some stress and put some fun and *magic* back into his way of thinking. He cannot not go. I cannot not go, as he cannot take care of the girls from a wheelchair and walker for a whole week (plus all the meds he is on). We are in a quandary. The date can't be changed because of the Florida Resident Special our friend got. Anybody out there who can help or knows someone who might be able to, PLEASE ask them. We would be forever grateful to you.

Sorry to have had to ask, but I don't know what else to do.
:confused:

Sincerely,

Liz and family
 
Sorry we are not on that cruise or would be glad to help out. I do hope your angel comes forward and that you and your family can make the cruise. It sounds like you deserve this chance more then anyone can image. I also hope things improve for you and your family in the future. Goog luck and I hope you have a very magical cruise !!!
 
Oh my how sad :(

I surely wish we were cruising at that time and could help out.
Do not give up and keep the faith ^i^. I am sure someone on our wonderful board will come up w/a good plan and be able to help you out. Best wishes to all your family, it sounds like you could use a break. I hope it works out and you get to have a magical vacation.
 
Oh, how I wish we could help! We are not on your cruise:(
I have been reading this board for 2 years and have seen MANY wonderful things happen here.I'm sending LOADS of pixie dust your way, both for the cruise and for the health of your family!
 

We are on that cruise also but a family
of four in a room for four! I would love
to help you out. Anyone else?
 
Did you try putting a notice on the 8/17 thread? Somebody there must be able to help you.
 
Also on your cruise, but our room is also full, 4 for 4. Hope everything works our for you.
 
Hello Liz,
I wish sweetie there could be someway I could help, but the only thing I can tell you that if you have needs while here in Cape Canaveral -----give me a call at the shop 800-950-4559 or my cell at 321-508-2246 and will do what ever possible to help --
Hope that it will all get solved before you leave.
God Bless you and yours super good.
Luv
Shirley
 
I wish we could help, but we're also 4 for 4. Keep thinking positive, there is still time! Hopefully there is someone out here who can help you. We'll be praying for you too.
 
Oh, you definitively deserve and NEED to make it on that ship! If I were on that cruise, I would help you out in a second. I will keep my fingers and toes crossed and pray someone will have the ability to help you out.
 
Liz...is it true? I saw Nana's post but it looked like that post was prior to your post about needing some help. I hope it all works out for you and your family. A awful lot of pixie dust has been heading your way!!
 
Relling Twin and cumickey....

THANK YOU so much for opening my eyes and correcting me! I have removed my reply. I was sooo happy for them I misread the date!! Oh my...please forgive me. Hoping if we keep bumping this they will get the help the desperately need.
 
Wish I could help. We are going in October on the MAGIC.

Would an option be to see if you could move the reservation to a time when DCL has two adjoining rooms and you can take everyone?

Keep us posted.

Jan :earsgirl:
 
Regretfully I'm cruising a week later, otherwise I'd be happy to help.

I can make one suggestion though--if you can't find anyone to help, but have a place for your DD to stay at home except for the medical needs, look into having the Visiting Nurse Association or another home care agency come in to give her her nightly injections and leave her with your friends.

One other thought, are the injections IM or IV? If they are IV, perhaps you could have a port put in for the week so the caregivers would only have to inject the line, rather than the vein.

Anne
 
Just bumping up for you.

Anne
 

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