Thanks everybody for making me feel so welcome! I should have posted sooner, it wasn't as hard to figure out as I thought it would be
So here is our tentative schedule for the first part of our trip. My husbands family is supposed to be joining us for the second part, but they haven't made any hotel reservations or anything yet (which is making me crazy!), so I'm just leaving our schedule totally open.
Nov. 29 - drive down
Nov. 30 - MK with 8:40am reservation at The Crystal Palace. I am a little nervous about this day because of the parade taping. Does anyone know how bad it might be?
Dec. 1 - Epcot
Dec. 2 - Free day, check out resort decorations
Dec. 3 - My hubby's birthday! 7am reservation at Chef Mickey's (I would like any advice about the best way to get there from POR that early), spend the morning at HS, go back to the room for a nap, Pirates and Pals cruise at 6:30, then to MK for EMH.
Dec. 4 - Free day
Dec. 5 - AK @8 for EMH, reservations at Tusker House @ 10:25, afternoon break, then to MK with 6:10pm reservations at Tony's (hoping to sit on the porch and to be able to see ELP, has anyone done this?)
Dec. 6 - HS, reservations at Hollywood and Vine @ 8:20am, afternoon break, reservations at Sci-Fi Dine In Theater @ 8:15pm.
Dec 7 - Not sure what park this day, whichever ones we haven't seen enough of yet. I'd really like to have a picnic on the beach at the Polynesian to watch Holiday Wishes this night. Has anyone ever done this? Can you just drive over and park there without having reservations at one of their restaurants?
Dec. 8 - My hubby's family is supposed to arrive. No plans yet from Dec. 8-Dec. 13.
I'm really trying not to plan too much. All three of my boys are on the autism spectrum (my oldest who will be 8 is the most affected, my youngest who will be 4 is barely noticeable and my middle one who is 5 is in the middle), so we will need lots of down time. We took them in February for three nights, with just one day in Magic Kingdom just to see how they would react and to make sure it wouldn't be too much for them. They really loved it and did alot better than I thought they would. They can't wait to go back and see it all!
Any and all advice or tips would be greatly appreciated