You guys gotta talk me down....bear with me while I explain. I mentioned how I'm going to Orlando with my sister. We'll be there four nights. I've decided not to try to work while I'm there, and will just take PTO. (My company has an unlimited PTO policy as long as we don't abuse it). The first day, we arrive in the afternoon and she won't have much to do until the next day so we can hang out by the pool if it's warm enough and relax. Or whatever. She is getting me into the conference for free on one day to see the panel she's moderating and do other conference-y things. (Her employer is co-sponsoring the conference and it's not my line of work but something I am interested in, so this is cool). Another day she has told her coworkers that she is playing hooky and she and I are going to Universal. She has never been and I have only been once in 2013 and have not seen the newest Harry Potter stuff. Then there is another day where she will be busy with work and told me to keep dinner time open and we'll eat together, but I am on my own that day.
This is where the "dilemma" comes in. Should I be "good" and take the hotel shuttle to wherever they drop for Disney and wander the deluxe resorts? I have never been to Animal Kingdom Lodge and would love to see if I could see any animals. I also love the theming of the Yacht Club and Grand Floridian and could wander and have some lunch at either place. Or...I could get a ticket and go to Epcot and take the Behind the Seeds tour I've wanted to take since our first trip with the kids in 2008. The tour itself is like $20 but of course the park ticket is not. When we've gone with the kids, we never wanted to take the time out to do it, and now they are older and we think we are done with Disney as a family (at least for awhile). Then if I was already there, I'd do some stuff, but I probably wouldn't get tickets too far ahead of time and so wouldn't really have fast passes. But that's fine.
As soon as I mentioned to DH that I'd have a day on my own, he said I should look into stuff we've never done and how often do I get so close to Disney? (The answer is not often). He said to do whatever I want and not worry about the money. I plan to offer to buy my sister's Universal ticket bc even though she personally is not paying for the hotel, obviously bc of her I'm getting free lodging and she said I am welcome to join in any dinners with her coworkers (that will be expensed) and even the Uber from the airport will be expensed and I won't need to pay.
So, not that I need "permission," but I basically have the green light to buy a park ticket if I want and do the tour...but I feel kind of like I shouldn't, even though I want to. I never go away without my family and DH has said every step of the way that I should, he wants me to have fun. But at the same time I feel almost guilty, even though I am excited beyond belief about this trip and can't wait. Does this all make sense? Thanks for listening to the rambling. First world problems, I know!