My wife handled all the bills up until about a week ago. I thought she had them under control. I knew that we had around $5k on a credit card that we were going to pay off with our Tax return last year. We ended up purchasing a business instead and rolling the $5k into a 0% balance transfer. The plan was to pay on it and then pay the balance with this year's tax return.
In the meantime, I switch jobs, it didn't work out, and I switched back. That put some financial strain on us but I wasn't aware of how much.
As I was figuring out where to put our tax return money last week, I asked her for the logins for all the credit cards. $11,000!
Needless to say I was not happy. We had a huge "Come to Jesus" and we are basically cutting everything out that we can to pay these off.
I called AT&T and got our bill lowered for a few months. I also switched cable/internet providers to get a lower rate....I know, you are supposed to cancel cable....I figure with two pre-schoolers and a lot of sitting at home to be done in the near future, I couldn't do that to them.
So for the past week we have been selling some stuff, making some money on the side, and doing what we can to focus on our highest interest card...Disney Visa.

We have paid off half of the $1k balance on it.
When our tax return comes, I should be able to pay it off as well as the balance for all of the other cards except the original $5k one that I knew about.
Since the 0% promo ends this month, I applied for a new card(

) that will give me a 0% balance transfer until next April. We are going to put every penny we can towards that card and hopefully pay it off by October. So at least we aren't paying any interest in the meantime. I'm also going to close at least three of the cards once the balances are paid off.
After that is paid off, I'm going to work on paying off our vehicle loan. After that, I will work on my student loans. This is going to be a different lifestyle now that I am handling the bills but hopefully in a few years we will be making double mortgage payments and will be on the road to being a lot happier.