Wonder how much those are gonna sell for? Pretty sure DW will make me pay off our BLT DVC points first....
Can you buy GF points since I have my BLT points paid off and let me stay at GF. There is a point reallocation coming as well that will be posted and sent in January for 2013. I'm really curious as the 2008 reallocation really messed me up.
Then no one would do anything Thursday afternoon...
Then we can go with a three day workweek. This is really easy.
So DW just returned from dropping DD8 (a second grader) off at an overnight birthday party for a "new girl" in DD school. She walked in and found out that the girl is a fourth grader and most of the kids there were in 4th or 5th grade and the single mom in charge seemed overwhelmed already. DW made a VERY quick decision that DD would only be staying until 10:30. Fortunately DD didn't throw a tantrum so DW said it came off as though they had planned it before they got there.
She is feeling a bit guilty and second guessing that call. I'm giving her huge credit and

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What do you guys think? Would you have let your 2nd grader stay at an overnight of kids all 2-3 years older than her when she didn't really know any of them very well? Are we overreacting?
For me, I am overprotective dad so I probably would not. And, my DW probably would not either. 4th grade is one thing, but 5th grade is a whole other issue, as well as finding a single mom overwhelmed. On the flip side, my 4th grader is as mature as my 2nd grader. My 2nd grader (age 7) also wears size 6 women's shoes and is almost the same height and weight as my 4th grader.
My experience. On the one I was nervous about, dd (then in 3rd grade) spent night with two other girls from school at the divorce dad's house. Now, his girlfriend was there, and even though I lived with DW before marriage, we did not have children and I really didn't approve, but I had a better feeling about her than I did about him. I didn't think he would hurt her, but just too lazy to get up and help. Also, they were smokers and we aren't. The home was messy and they were both 10 years younger than we. On the surface, these two clearly did not share the same lifestyle as DW and I (ages, marriage, smoker, cleanliness), but dd really wanted to stay.
I did ...ahem...have a friend...ahem...police officer... ahem.... check them out and they were not criminals and ... ahem...friend... social worker... ahem... check them out and they did not have child protection case.
So, I felt like there were no safety issues and let her stay there. She had a great time with her friend, but told us the next day that she really did not want to stay at their house because they smoked. Now, she and the other girl are still friends, but she doesn't want to stay over there anymore. Sometimes, life teaches a better lesson than we as parents ever can. But, I had her call home after she was there 2 hours and was there at 8:00 AM to pick her up.