DDA Chapter 8

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Well I'm officially signing off for the week, please keep it to a dull roar so that I can catch up upon returning. :goodvibes

Have a wonderful week!

Adios!

HAVE A BALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Good morning..

Debbie, Jen and Elizabeth- Safe travels today. :wizard:

Jennifer- I sure hope that your MIL is gone and you can relax and not worry about having her around.

Glynis- I am sorry your MIL is acting the way she is and more importantly that it is making Alan upset. :wizard: to your family. Enjoy the wedding today.

Vicki, Deb and Elizabeth- All of your trips will be magical, so don't stress too much.

Tia- Good to see you pop in, I hope you can get your trip dates worked out.

Elin- Enjoy your weekend with Kristin, sounds like a great time. :wizard: for Bob's mother and a safe trip for him.

Denise- Yikes, that pizza delivery sounded downright scary. I am sorry your last day ended roughly. Enjoy the summer vacation.

Tammi- Sounds like Alyssa recital was wonderful. She must have been on :cloud9: See you this afternoon!!


I am sure I missed some so :hug:'s and :wizard:
 
So we are going to try our hardest to meet up with Tammi, Bob and the kids. Em and Mo spent the night at my in-laws so we are picking them up at 10:30am and headed into the city. The sun is shining and it's beautiful here.

My mom is coming over to sit with Lucy. She isn't cranky at all but I think a day on the run would change that. And since she is on antibiotics she probably shouldn't be in the sun.


Have a great Saturday!!
 

Vicki - Well, I can be a bit high strung depending on the situation. And for some reason my mother brings out the worst in me! I tell myself to be patient with her and let her do things her own way but her inability to make good choices makes me so ANGRY! :mad:

Diva Girl's selfish wish list is always first, above and beyond all else. BOTH of them need counseling but neither one will go. My mother has bills piling up but she won't file her medical claims, won't file her income tax and won't cash in the life policy she has on me. I suspect she has a life policy on my middle sister, too. Her car is a death trap yet she just keeps making little repairs and spending more and more money. Her cell phone isn't under contract - it's with Sprint. Diva Girl's cell phone is with AT&T so it costs them minutes to talk to each other! I offered to go with my mom to get an AT&T phone. For the activation fee ($26) she could have a brand new handset and since we are AT&T customers ALL of our calls to each other would be free. But NOOO! She doesn't want to get into a 2 year contract because she doesn't know what will happen yet. She didn't sign a new lease at the end of March because she was waiting for more test results. Hello? She's not going to move no matter how advanced the cancer is! She doesn't understand that she can't just write them a little Post It saying she hasn't decided what to do with her lease! :headache:

She doesn't want to spend time with me because I stress her out. She thinks of me like one of those MILs so many of the DDAers have! :rotfl: If I am not there then I can't talk to her about her bills or her phone or the insurance or anything else unpleasant. I interfere with the view through her rose colored glasses. On the other hand, she is DS's only grandparent and she is my mom and I love her and care about her so I want to see her. Unfortunately I can't seem to keep quiet about all the things she isn't getting around to addressing.

Let go Elizabeth! It is a very hard thing to do but for you & your mom, you need to learn to do so. Like you said, she is your mother and DS's grandmother. You need to have pleasant memories for how ever long that is. You aren't going to change her. It is too late in her life for that.
 
It's been a long time since I've been up this late, but I think I have everything done with the exception of the last minute things that we will use before packing them in the morning.

DH thinks I'm nuts to insist that the house get a good cleaning before going on a trip. I want to come home to a nice clean house with fresh sheets, and I don't want any laundry waiting, that way I can empty the suitcases in the laundry room and start on it right away.

Elizabeth - :hug: Sorry you're having such a tough time with the Mom issues.

I'm going to try and get some sleep now, I'll probably check in before we head out tomorrow, I'm not going to take the laptop, we already have enough to carry.

Luckily, Chuck & I both agree about the clean house before we leave on a trip. Nothing worse than coming home to a mess after a relaxing vacation. It is so nice to get home, unload everything and crash in a clean place!

Have a great trip!
 
Jennifer - I hope Kyle is doing a decent job of running interference for you!

Bernadette - I didn't even think about the hat being online so you could see it! Good thinking! :thumbsup2
I always budget for cabs if we need them, so that's not a big deal unless we need them every day. One poor lady said they spent $75 in a single day on cab fare! :scared1: If the reports were newbies or people who had never been before I wouldn't give them a second thought. The thing that has got my knickers in a knot is the reports from people like us who have been a bunch of times and know how things usually go. People who have NEVER rented a car before who are just pushed to the brink by waiting an hour for a bus day after day. I hope they really are working on the dispatch system and will get it sorted out soon. DH said we've never had a problem at AKL. Since we have never had a problem we have never had to try to get help from them! It sounds like if anyone in a DVC room has a problem they are told "tough" and left to work it out on their own! :sad2: I guess we'll hope we don't have a problem. And we're only in a DVC room the last 3 nights. (The last 4 if our waitlist comes through.)

DS and I are packed now. The cell phones are charging. I never did get any cash because I can't work out how much to bring. I guess I'll just go get some and hope it's enough! :rotfl2:

Kyle was actually a saint, to the best of his ability! He cut his mom off when she was running her mouth (most of the time), and made everyone just go in the basement and play guitar hero and sing star :rotfl: For the most part, we hardly had any more conversation :rolleyes: We did stay up until after midnight which was frustrating, but she had to work today so they were all gone when we woke up.
 
I love to read your "half-full" posts, Stephanie. You have a knack of saying things so well. I would not do so well. I would probably make people angry. :lmao:

I am a silver-lining kind of person too, and often want to respond that things will be fine. However, my two lovely, loving daughters often tell me that my expressing my eternally optimistic, rosy view of the world is not always appreciated by someone who is down in the dumps or needing to work things out verbally. :confused3 Who knew?? :rotfl2: So, I often keep my comments to myself so that I don't tread on anyone's mental brainstorming. ;)

But, Elizabeth... (listen to Stephanie! :rolleyes: )

I have the same problem Elin. I have to remember that sometimes when people are venting, it is just so that they can work through their emotions to get to a good place. I so badly want to help them get there quicker. Nothing is worse for me than watching those around me suffer and knowing that there really is nothing I can say or do to help them other than to just listen. I want to fix it!
 
Kristin and I are on our own for the majority of this weekend. Bob's Mom was back in the hospital earlier this week for another blockage in what is remaining of her colon. :( She is home, but he and his other brother who is not in the Punxsutawney area decided that this was the perfect weekend to head home for a family get-together.

The Greek church in our area is having their Festival this weekend so I know we will head there for one meal. :) Also, one of my favorite wine shops has recently opened an outdoor eating and drinking area so we will be there for lunch one day too. And then there is that leftover amount on that gift certificate we used, Tammi... so Bistro Bethem here we come! ;)

I suppose when Bob gets home on Monday we will think about the ubiquitous cookout! :rotfl:
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Sounds like a nice week-end for the two of you. Sorry that Bob's mother is having more problems.

I love the grilling smileys. We will grill at least once this week-end. Chuck is going to his parents tomorrow. Everyone asked if we were camping this week-end. Chuck told them that I wanted to be home. I have so much to do. I decided I was going to take a break this morning and hang out here. As soon as I catch up, I'll be off to start packing for our trip, do some house cleaning, and do some work.
 
Did I mention that the final score was 13 to 3 :cool1: :cool1: Oh yeah, this was the first team that we played this year so I guess it was payback:goodvibes

Hooray! :cheer2:

10 weeks from now we'll be spending our first night at AKL concierge. :goodvibes

Deb, 5 weeks sounds better than 10.

Vicki, 2 weeks sounds better than 5.

Jen, cruising tomorrow sounds best of all!

What about 10 months?! I don't even make this list?! :confused3

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All I can add to this Elizabeth is... if I allowed the naysayers on the DVC board to effect how my trip was, I would have had 3 bad trips. Between the "moldy" talk for OKW, the bus issues at SSR and the total unavailablity of BCV for F&W, I should have just stayed home. But I didn't let them get me down and I had a great room at SSR, no bus troubles. I was able to get a spotless GV at OKW at 7 months for Sun-Friday. I was able to get BCV during F&W with an EPCOT view no less.

Your mileage may vary. :banana: I didn't have a DTD view at SSR and my heart sank right there at the desk. I was so upset, I just knew I would hate it. Waa, waa, waa. I allowed it to bother me the entire time I was riding to my room. Grump, grump, grump. And then I got off the elevator and had to walk all the way to the end of the hallway. OMG, this was going to suck. And opened the door and fell in love.:love: :love:

But nothing prepared me for OKW. My sister and I walked into the one bedroom and it took our breath away. That villa was bigger than her apartment.:love: :love: :hippie: Right near the bus stop. We didn't wait for a bus for more than 20 minutes. Most times it was 10.

Hang in there Elizabeth. :hug:

All so true! :goodvibes
 
I was looking at the "old pictures" thread & I got to thinking that I knew I had 1 or 2 pictures of me at Disney when I was 5. Just didn't know where it was. Well last night I found it.

We went for 1 day when my uncle was helping someone move to FL. It's from 1973. This is my grandma (who was 73 at the time born in 1899) She raised me while in her 70's. :worship: God sent me 2 angels (her & my uncle) to bring me up when my parents could not. I remember the Emporium & riding It's a Small World. Wish I had more pictures.
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I know we look crabby but I think the sun was in our face.
 
That's a very special picture!!

I had a wonderful relationship with my grandparents....and I am glad my kids are as lucky
 
I gotta get dressed and go. As I am working at a wedding that I do not remember agreeing to work at. I would rather stay home in my PJs and clean. My whole body aches from falling up the stairs and I just wanna do nothing. Hopefully it is quick and easy.

Have a great day everyone.
 
I ended falling asleep by 9:15 last night, woke up and worked our little garden and am now waiting for Abi to be done in the shower so I can go to town on the bathrooms:cool1:
 
Anne Marie - What a wonderful picture you found! :goodvibes
 
Good morning/afternoon, DDA!

Anne Marie - What a special picture!

Hope everyone is having a good weekend so far. I was too tired to get up with Phil so I sent him with the car since Erin's is sitting here extra this weekend. Took Mom's for an oil change and tire rotation and now we're headed to the mall for Terra some new shoes. Her's are getting too small. Maybe we'll get lucky and I'll find some sandles she can actually wear.

After that, I need to sit down and price out our trip options so that I can get this back under control. I guess we'll keep the Dec reservation for awhile since hopefully Phil will have a new job by then, but I have a feeling it will be in a place with the same vacation blackout dates.

Catch you all after while!
 
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