Pat- HUGS, and welcome to my nightmare.I can relate as I'm in your shoes, and the prospects are bleak. Meanwhile you should be worrying about Bridget's health and well-being, not her medical bills- so I'm really angry at your insurance company for forcing you to go through so much stress. David, as you know, is in renal failure and on dialysis. It took over 2 years for him to get on the waitlist for a transplant due to insurance issues. For anyone who doesn't know, once a person is in renal failure, there is a special Medicare plan that covers dialysis. The coverage stops the MOMENT you get a transplant, so you have no coverage when you're in the hospital and recovering. How stupid is this? My son was employed and worked hard at age 17 and 18 but he is not able to work right now, esp being on dialysis for 6 hours a day, 3 days a week. As for the new healthcare plans, even though you can add a dependent up to age 26, they are no longer considered a "child" at age 18, so the pre-existing conditions clause applies to them for the following four years. I don't see much help for people like Bridget and David with the "reform". The "reform" is so watered down-I was really pullling for universal coverage like my relatives in Canada receive. Just think of the lowered stress they have not having to be worried about losing their homes over medical bills that are NO fault of their own. Bridget and David didn't ask to be so sick- and of course both our families have wage-earners and have been taxpayers all our lives and played by the rules. As to Medicaid, the "waivers" are only for those that are developmentally disabled, which would cover Sean but not Bridget. Your best bet is to talk to the hospital social worker. She should be eligible for spend-down Medicaid since her bills are, I'm sure, over the limit to qualify. If you are taking her as a tax deduction then they may look at your income, but again, her bills will probably be high after such extensive surgery/hospitalization. If not, then there's no shame in a medical bankruptcy that would allow you to keep your home- I doubt you will need to pursue such action though as Medicaid should apply now that you've reached your insurance limits. NO ONE in America should have to take this journey, but unfortunately we're two of many- the silent voices who are just too tired to raise them in anger at a country where lawmakers really don't care. If you're a child, then there is always coverage, once you've turned 18 the unspoken message is that your life is expendable and worthless. Am I bitter? You bet. Hang in there Pat and don't let this get you down- Bridget needs you right now probably more than ever. I'm so sorry to hear she's required more surgery. She's been through way too much in her short lifetime and I'm proud of her for thinking of going to college this fall despite all the pain and hard work of therapy.---Kathy