Thanks for all the great comments. I almost didn't post them because they were so old. I'm glad they are being enjoyed.
Beth,
NO!!! we are not doing a commando trip again. At least I don't think so. My husband has hidden my boots and whip. We are doing 3 days before, but, everyone got to pick 3 things and 3 things only for the trip that they wanted to do. Everything else will just be bonus. At least that is the plan.