Cute things turned annoying....

[Tigger&Belle]

Cathy, you have to tell him this annoys you. Me and my kids all ganged up on my husband who used to make a sound in the vehicle like a screeech, hissing noise like an accident was about to happen-for every little thing. We all ganged up on him and told him to stop it. It was pure annoying. Nor funny anymore. He did stop, but it still slips out every once in awhile. Thank goodness, after a 20 miles road trip and 100 hissing noises, we were all ready to kill him.

Now that I have my new van I drive more that I did my other van. The other day I was driving and was approaching a left turn lane. My DH let out one of those "and accident is about to happen, so I braked thinking that the car ahead of me (in the lane going straight) was about to cut in front of me and was going to cause an accident. Turns out, he was reacting to the other driver, but not in that way. That other driver had thrown both his hands in the air, frustrated with the car in front of him. So my DH was worried that he was going to hit that other car, hence his reaction. The thing is, we were all coming up to a red light and none of us were going too fast, so even if those two cars had of collided it wouldn't have been a bad accident, but my DH reacting like that easily could have caused me to get in an accident.

But he insisted that it really wasn't a big deal and that I was making too much out of it. He would have been furious if I had of done that to him...

 

[Am_I_There_Yet]

Ooooohhh, my DH is turning into the WORST backseat driver ever! And to make it worse, he's also the WORST driver!

His response? "If I can drive a firetruck in a crisis, I can drive this piddly car." Ummm... okay, but do you drive the firetruck with your knees while you're eating a hamburger???

I totally understand about almost causing wrecks. He'll shout at something minor and it makes me slam on my brakes every time.

 

[nwdisgal]

When he forgets things. Makes me wonder what is going on with his head, or if he is just absent minded.

 

[Laurajean1014]

My dh walks around in his undies around the house. I was not brought up this way and it drives me crazy. I think he thinks he looks sexy and I think he looks hilarious.

I guess I can't handle too much of a good thing!

 

[2buzzboys]

I used to think my DH was cute. Now I just find him annoying.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Ooooohhh, my DH is turning into the WORST backseat driver ever! And to make it worse, he's also the WORST driver!

His response? "If I can drive a firetruck in a crisis, I can drive this piddly car." Ummm... okay, but do you drive the firetruck with your knees while you're eating a hamburger???

I totally understand about almost causing wrecks. He'll shout at something minor and it makes me slam on my brakes every time.

If I say anything to my husband when he's driving his response is always, "you want to drive?". Doesn't matter how nice I am about it and I always tell him to pull over so I can drive, but he doesn't.

 

[TinkerBess_SnowTori]

When I get a phone call all of a sudden he has a 100 things to tell me.

OOOooooOOO this is so my husband!! If he comes home and I am on the phone he stomps around and pouts --- but if it is just a normal night and he comes home and I am just cooking dinner - I barely get a second glance before he goes upstairs to check his email

 

[Am_I_There_Yet]

If I say anything to my husband when he's driving his response is always, "you want to drive?". Doesn't matter how nice I am about it and I always tell him to pull over so I can drive, but he doesn't.

Mine too!

 

[castleview]

How he listened to his mother

 

[Stacerita]

Whats not starting to annoy me about my BF?

 

[mickeyfan2]

If he says NO! one more time to me when I ask him something, I'm jabbing a fork into his forehead.

Could you take a photo when you do this?

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Could you take a photo when you do this?

She won't need to--it will be on the 11 o'clock news!

 

[WatchinCaptKangaroo]

When I would vent about moronic co-workers he'd say "just punch em in the eye". Every time. He thought he was being funny, I was about to punch him in the eye. One of the many reasons he is now my ex.

 

[Nancy]

DH thinks it is ok to wake me up, no matter when or how long I've been sleeping to ask the dumbest questions. 6:15 in the morning.."Are there clean jeans in the basement?" (Go look!). Middle of the night, he is wide awake, so he starts looking through paperwork on the desk. I get woken up with a "what is this?" Now I am supposed to know immediately upon wakening, without even looking at what is in his hand, what "this" is. IF I ask "what are you talking about?" he gets mad. But my favorite all time question is..."are you sleeping?" Nope Its 2am, lights are out and my eyes are closed, but I'm not sleeping.

Another favorite question...this time when I'm awake. "were you watching that?" as he starts flipping channels on the remote. Nope..I was just sitting on the couch starring at the TV, waiting for you to get home to change the channels for me!

he did all this when dating and right after we were married but it wasn't as annoying...now...after 20 years, it has passed annoying. I'm also sure I do things that annoy him, but I can't imagine what those might be.

 

[Marseeya]

I can't believe any of this stuff was ever cute to ya'll!

 

[Planogirl]

Mine likes to start yelling in an extremely shrill voice when he's playing and it feels like spears are being driven through my head. I swear that he has become more shrill over the years but maybe I've just become less tolerant.

 

[kristen821]

Another thing he does is ask me where everything is before he even looks for it. The other night he asked me where the bread was. He'll ask me where his shoes are. I have not read one thing that dh doesn't do yet this is so funny. He wakes me up for stupid questions too. Also I work from 10pm-6:30am twice a week and will be sound asleep (which is hard for me to do during the day) all of a sudden I hear him telling the kids to be quiet because mommy in sleeping. We go through this every week. It isn't the kids I hear. It is him telling them to be quiet. I alway say I have three kids ds, dd and dh! Dh is my most difficult, but I love him!

 

[NMAmy]

I never really found this endearing but it annoys me more as time goes on. DH cannot remember anything. I have no idea how he functions at work--although maybe he puts all his memory to use there and has none left over for other stuff!

He will ask me repeatedly what we're doing. For example, last week we had to take dd to the airport to go to her dad's for Christmas. Early in the week, he asked me about it. I told him and he repeated it. Two days later, same question, same explanation. On Friday, the day she was leaving, he asked me if she was flying out of Detroit. I'd been telling him for the last month that she was flying out of our local airport. Then we had to go through the whole thing again--what time we were leaving, what airline, etc. etc. It's not that he's not listening because he's very involved in the conversations--repeating what I say and asking pertinent questions. It's just that we go through the same conversation over and over again that makes me crazy!

That's really the only thing that makes me want to jam a fork in his forehead so I guess I don't have a lot to complain about!

 

[kristen821]

Dh always claims "you didn't tell me that" The sad part is he is really serious and doesn't think I tell him things until I say "yes I did and you said..." Then he walks away. God forbid he say oh yeah your right you did tell me!

 

[Shugardrawers]

At first it was nice that he always wanted to do/eat/go wherever I wanted to. Now it annoys me that he won't make a decision. If I know I want to go to a certain restaurant for instance, I say so. If I ask where he wants to go he always turns it back on me. I ask because I either don't know where I want to go or because I want his input. Drives me NUTS. And speaking of driving, that REALLY annoys me. He follows much too closely and drives too fast when he's doing it. If the person in front of him were to stop quickly we'd be in big trouble. He insists on driving though so I usually have to close my eyes. He gets mad when I gasp or brace myself. He hasn't had an accident yet but it's coming I'm sure. That's always annoyed me though.