I'm not neccessarily looking for the characters, I am looking for a full service, good food, relaxing place to refuel with 3 cheer moms and 3 cheer teenagers. What would be my best choice? Thanks!
You might enjoy either. It depends. These are my thoughts (there are zealots on each side of the food quality opinion)
Crystal Palace
service - full service restaurant - buffet style - we've found the service very good
food quality - great variety - I like the quality
relaxing place - we've always had plenty of room and found tables comfortable - we were not rushed. CP is very pretty but because it is so open with very high ceilings it can get pretty noisy, also characters parade around every hour with kids
Liberty Tree Tavern
service - full service restaurant - family style served at your table - we've found the service very good
food quality - set menu - I dislike the food here but others love it - I think part of the problem for us is the amount of starch - you are served a salad and rolls, then the server brings out a plate of turkey, ham and beef (all of which we found dry), gravy, mashed potatoes, stuffing and green beans - after dinner the server brings a family style plate of warm apple or cherry pie with ice cream (tasted great).
relaxing place - plenty of room at our table - people are seated in rooms with lower ceilings than CP - found it less noisy than CP - there are some tables where air conditioning blows on you - last visit we were in a room with about 10 tables right by a window - it was very nice. We've never felt rushed here either.
I know you are not interested in characters but they were a lot of fun at both places even for older people.