crush

[Lovela]

Three guys have a crush on me, one is aged 13, 16 and 17. They have been flirting with me, which is gross, and I don't have a single feeling for them..What should I do? I'm just 13!

 

[::Snow_White::]

Tell them politely that you do not have feelings for them and ask them nicely to stop flirting with you.

 

[snpmurdoch]

Three guys have a crush on me, one is aged 13, 16 and 17. They have been flirting with me, which is gross, and I don't have a single feeling for them..What should I do? I'm just 13!

hey lovela! i no its hard 17!? thats rough, i can tell u don want to hurt anyones feelings, which is good, but set off a vibe that your not interested. also, remind them how old they are, theyre shooting too old!

 

[Lovela]

Thanks for the advice, I'll try..

 

[Sports Blondie]

Three guys have a crush on me, one is aged 13, 16 and 17. They have been flirting with me, which is gross, and I don't have a single feeling for them..What should I do? I'm just 13!

Just watching out for you... and i am sure you have heard this a million times highschool boys have one thing on thier mind.... and that's all they want then they ditch you.

 

[Sports Blondie]

DEFINATELY drop hints or straight up tell them you aren't interested. * sorry got caught up in the ages. lol*

 

[Rockstar mentality]

With all the tall tales thatve been floating arround I find that slightlty hard 2 believe but hey I am an not right 2 accuse u or lying. twait til the 17 year old is 18 and tell him that if he wants u then it will be satchatory rape. tell the 16 year old that u like someone ure age and look into the eyes of the 13 year old with ure undivided attention and tell him ure soory there's some other guy. hey lying can only eventualy only get u in deeper s**t but that's the easiest way I can think of doing it.

 

[Princess Ash]

No feelings for them?

Ignore them. Literally. Don't be polite.

They'll get the hint and go away.

Probably not the most diplomatic way to handle things, but please...you're 13 years old. Enjoy sports and school and dance and whatever hobbies you like and forget about boys for at least another year or so.

 

[Lovela]

With all the tall tales thatve been floating arround I find that slightlty hard 2 believe but hey I am an not right 2 accuse u or lying. twait til the 17 year old is 18 and tell him that if he wants u then it will be satchatory rape. tell the 16 year old that u like someone ure age and look into the eyes of the 13 year old with ure undivided attention and tell him ure soory there's some other guy. hey lying can only eventualy only get u in deeper s**t but that's the easiest way I can think of doing it.

No feelings for them?

Ignore them. Literally. Don't be polite.

They'll get the hint and go away.

Probably not the most diplomatic way to handle things, but please...you're 13 years old. Enjoy sports and school and dance and whatever hobbies you like and forget about boys for at least another year or so.

Okay, . Thanks!

 

[Babyjustrun]

Do what everyone else said.
But definately stay away from the 16 and 17 year old, they aren't really after you. I know a guy who only dates ninth graders, and it's really quite... gross. Because he doesn't care who he's with. He's dated the prettiest of girls, he's dated my best friend, he's attempted to go out with me (he's too creepy) and now he's going out with this girl who has the maturity of a fifth grader.

 

[Lovela]

The 16's all over me, he said I was cute, I said I was not interested. He backed off. The 17 and 13 are my dad's cousins! Tomorrow I'm going to their house to visit their dad(my dad's uncle), my cousin's said that the boys are just teasing me, well I don't know..? Are they? It's just unbelievable, it's like a dream! But it's so real

 

[reminisce]

at least now you really dont have much to worry about. i mean, you took care of the 16 year old, and you have a completely valid excuse to not respond to the 13 or 17 year old, i mean, theyre family. just ignore it, theyre probably only doing it for fun, anyways

 

[Sparx]

Just watching out for you... and i am sure you have heard this a million times highschool boys have one thing on thier mind.... and that's all they want then they ditch you.

oh my god i can't believe you said this.

Believe it or not, girls, boys do think about things BESIDES sex. They CAN and WILL care about you, no matter what they're getting out of it.

Only a jerk is only in it to get in your pants.

Boys HAVE FEELINGS. They want to be loved JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO.

god almighty. i'm just appalled that someone would say this.

 

[Disney.Ears]

oh my god i can't believe you said this.

Believe it or not, girls, boys do think about things BESIDES sex. They CAN and WILL care about you, no matter what they're getting out of it.

Only a jerk is only in it to get in your pants.

Boys HAVE FEELINGS. They want to be loved JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO.

god almighty. i'm just appalled that someone would say this.

Wow Shelby, very well said. Some people don't think of it that way. I know I haven't but what you said made sense.

I also can't help but think this is...fake a little bit. Because when you were thanking people for their advice you used the thing, like it's a joke to you?

 

[Pirate Me]

It's very, very, very simple.
Say "no".

 

[Babyjustrun]

oh my god i can't believe you said this.

Believe it or not, girls, boys do think about things BESIDES sex. They CAN and WILL care about you, no matter what they're getting out of it.

Only a jerk is only in it to get in your pants.

Boys HAVE FEELINGS. They want to be loved JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO.

god almighty. i'm just appalled that someone would say this.

I agree with you.
I think the TB has been generalizing too much lately.
I do find though, that some guys, some of the older guys don't want a girlfriend for sex, they just want a girlfriend to .. feel complete? But they don't really care for her, they just think that if they have a girlfriend, that aspect of their life has been filled. Whether it's meaningful or not.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

The 16's all over me, he said I was cute, I said I was not interested. He backed off. The 17 and 13 are my dad's cousins! Tomorrow I'm going to their house to visit their dad(my dad's uncle), my cousin's said that the boys are just teasing me, well I don't know..? Are they? It's just unbelievable, it's like a dream! But it's so real

haha omg i would sooo be teasing u if i was either of them.

 

[Lovela]

Is it wrong to put that smiley, why would I lie? Anyways, you don't even know me. If you did, omg. I guess the 13 and 17 are just teasing me. I hope so, I don't wanna go to their house and get all discusting like with them..

 

[laurenluvsdisney]

The 16's all over me, he said I was cute, I said I was not interested. He backed off. The 17 and 13 are my dad's cousins! Tomorrow I'm going to their house to visit their dad(my dad's uncle), my cousin's said that the boys are just teasing me, well I don't know..? Are they? It's just unbelievable, it's like a dream! But it's so real

ummm if they are your dad's cousins, doesn't that mean that they are related to you too??? that just makes this whole thing a bit weird...

 

[Lovela]

ummm if they are your dad's cousins, doesn't that mean that they are related to you too??? that just makes this whole thing a bit weird...

So, they are related, but you can still marry your cousin uncle right?

Luckily I went there and they weren't there, fueh!