the only difference i noticed is that for breakfast, the fairy godmother is waiting downstairs, and you see her on your way out (she is sitting on a bench, and you wait in line to see her), and cinderella is walking around the dining room while you eat, and at lunch cinderella is downstairs and the fairy godmother is upstairs in the dining room walking around while you eat. so if you prefer to see cinderella while you eat, breakfast would be best. and, lkie the op said, the major domo's pie at lunch is awesome though! have fun!