Long story, somewhat short....
Yesterday, my husband was playing with my kids, 6 and almost 2, outside in the street. I live in a resort area, so, this time of year is quiet so we take advantage of the situation and ride bikes and play ball in front of my house. I live on a side street that has access to the beach, therefore in the summer people drive down the street to access it and we don't get much playtime in the street because of this. It is NOT a main street and during the off season we get maybe 2 dozen or so cars going down the street on any given day and these cars are mostly my neighbors coming and going.
While playing in the street, a car came by going at least 35 in a 25 with everyone OUT in the street on the side b/c of his speed. My husband said while he was speeding by " HEY SLOW down brother!"
I had just walked out onto my porch and the car came to a SCREECHING halt, the IRATE man got OUT of his car and CAME AT MY HUSBAND WHO WAS HOLDING MY 22 month old!!!!!!!!!!
I flew off the porch, I don't even think I hit a stair and immediately got between this man and my husband & baby, thinking he would not hit a woman, and just kept saying " Get back in your car! There are kids here! Please leave! Get back in your car " " Stop cursing ' etc etc.....
He was cursing up a storm, in front of the kids, unlike anyone I have ever heard!!! My husband whipped out his phone & dialed the police station and in the timeframe I managed to move him BACK to his car away from my husband and the kids b/c I am almost 6 ft tall, he was shorter than me and I'm not afraid of anyone esp. with my momma bear instincts flying!!! I had my arms outstretched trying to get into his personal space to move him away, which worked. It was scary to say the least b/c I had no idea WHAT he was going to do, he was so irate anything could have happened....
I calmed him down a bit, he was full of tattoos and 1 front & center on his neck said " Aiden " so I asked him who this was & he said " his 7 month old SON!" I then got mad and could not believe he was a DAD ACTING THIS WAY IN FRONT OF CHILDREN!!!! I just kept on saying please leave, please get in your car, police are coming etc etc..... I think he had issues with a woman telling him to do something etc etc...He finally got back to his car and was all hyped up freaking out cursing still
Police came, he told them I TOUCHED HIM ( didn't ) and he said he was only doing 23 down the st. Yeah, OK. He clearly was not b/c when he stopped the car, the tires screetched and the car rocked from front to back. The police said they could do nothing. I told the police I wanted them to get all his information b/c in the event of him trying to " get even " or something with us in the future b/c of what transpired, he'd be the 1st one we'd go to ( tires slashed, vandalism etc etc...)
I was and am scared for what transpired. We are the lowest key easy going people out there so I have no idea WHAT came over me! I think the whole image of him violently going at my husband who was holding the baby I saw him hitting them in my mind and something took over! I can not stop thinking of this man trying to break in here or do something to us. I have never had thoughts of fear like this in my life!!! The police literally did nothing. They asked me what I wanted them to do b/c they saw nothing and it was his word against ours.
They did get his info, turns out he lives here as well and was coming from 1 of my neighbors who was not home. My neighbor says he can't stand the guy, he always drops by and never leaves and is not the best example of a human being ( down on his luck, problems etc etc...) My neighbor said he'd ask him to stay away from my end of the street if he ever comes by again, but, my neighbor also said something interesting, he said " GOOD! now i have a reason to tell him to take a hike! For disrespecting the neighborhood and yelling at his friends! " So in my mind I'm like great just 1 more reason to give this crazy animal of a man retaliation thoughts against my family.
So anyway I just wanted to share this b/c I keep going over & over what I did and could have done.. Should I have grabbed the baby & my son and ran inside the house leaving my husband out there by himself? I think he would have most definatly gotten hit I dunno........I think what I did to try to calm the guy down and get him back into his car diffused the situation until the police came, which it did, but my kids witnessed the WHOLE THING and this makes me angry at myself!!! Thanks for letting me tell my story-sometimes I hate people and can not believe how they conduct themselves in public!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!