All opinions are wanted! 
I have been trying to decide which resort to go to for our Feb. trip (1st trip to WDW for dh and almost 3 y/o ds). I want to stay somewhere magical and NICE, as the times I have been in the past I have not stayed on site. I recently discovered that I can get a nurse discount at the Swan & Dolphin, which is a big plus. BUT money is not really an issue for this trip. Sooo, which hotel do you think would be the BEST one (considering I have a toddler)? And, of the one you would choose, what are the nicest rooms with the best views?
I tried reading through the swan/dolphin FAQ post, but WOW, I would be there all week trying to find some answers!
I guess I don't really understand if there are any benefits to "staying on site" when staying at the swan/dolphin. (like what kind of disney transportation, mug refills here?, etc.)
Thank you for any suggestions.

I have been trying to decide which resort to go to for our Feb. trip (1st trip to WDW for dh and almost 3 y/o ds). I want to stay somewhere magical and NICE, as the times I have been in the past I have not stayed on site. I recently discovered that I can get a nurse discount at the Swan & Dolphin, which is a big plus. BUT money is not really an issue for this trip. Sooo, which hotel do you think would be the BEST one (considering I have a toddler)? And, of the one you would choose, what are the nicest rooms with the best views?
I tried reading through the swan/dolphin FAQ post, but WOW, I would be there all week trying to find some answers!

Thank you for any suggestions.