I'm coming to you guys for advice once again. I hope this isn't inappropriate for the boards. But since I don't have many gay friends (or friends in general) you guys are like my family. So Mike, feel free to delete it if it's out of place.
Last month I posted about coming out to my coworker. As I said then, it went well. We've had no problems talking about it or making jokes or anything. Friday night we're playing WoW and chatting. He tells me he needs sex. Jokingly, I asked if that was a request. His response was "hmmm" followed by something about not wanting to mess up our friendship and stuff. We just carried on talking about other stuff and then one of us logged off.
Me being the way I am, I suddenly get worried. I wondered if he didn't realize I was joking and was making a pass at him!
I often hear straight guys saying they don't mind gay guys, as long as they don't try anything with them. So now I'm all worried and can't stop thinking about it.
Yesterday when thinking about it something else comes to mind. Wait a minute, what was with the "hmmm"??
Was he actually considering it??? Tonight we were chatting in the game and I bring it up. I let him know that when I asked if it was a request that I was joking. I then asked if he was considering it, and he said yes! 
He even said he made a reference to it on Friday but I must have missed it. But then he had to go so we couldn't discuss it more. I was curious what reference he made.
So now my head is totally spinning.
See, here's the thing. I've had a crush on him for the longest time. At times it was pretty bad. 
I'm talking about daydreaming and having fantasies. It got to the point where I had to slap myself and remind myself "he's str8", thinking like this is just making it harder on you. But now after tonight's chat and revelation, I don't know what to think. I don't want to mess up our friendship (although we're really only friends at work, we haven't hung out outside of work). We're coworkers, so that makes things risky. Not just coworkers, but in the same department. Oh, and then there's that little thing that he's (supposedly) str8! 
Perhaps he's curious? What should I do?? Should I talk to him more about it? Or not bring it up? Thanks in advance for your advice.
Last month I posted about coming out to my coworker. As I said then, it went well. We've had no problems talking about it or making jokes or anything. Friday night we're playing WoW and chatting. He tells me he needs sex. Jokingly, I asked if that was a request. His response was "hmmm" followed by something about not wanting to mess up our friendship and stuff. We just carried on talking about other stuff and then one of us logged off.
Me being the way I am, I suddenly get worried. I wondered if he didn't realize I was joking and was making a pass at him!
I often hear straight guys saying they don't mind gay guys, as long as they don't try anything with them. So now I'm all worried and can't stop thinking about it.Yesterday when thinking about it something else comes to mind. Wait a minute, what was with the "hmmm"??
Was he actually considering it??? Tonight we were chatting in the game and I bring it up. I let him know that when I asked if it was a request that I was joking. I then asked if he was considering it, and he said yes! He even said he made a reference to it on Friday but I must have missed it. But then he had to go so we couldn't discuss it more. I was curious what reference he made.So now my head is totally spinning.
See, here's the thing. I've had a crush on him for the longest time. At times it was pretty bad. I'm talking about daydreaming and having fantasies. It got to the point where I had to slap myself and remind myself "he's str8", thinking like this is just making it harder on you. But now after tonight's chat and revelation, I don't know what to think. I don't want to mess up our friendship (although we're really only friends at work, we haven't hung out outside of work). We're coworkers, so that makes things risky. Not just coworkers, but in the same department. Oh, and then there's that little thing that he's (supposedly) str8! Perhaps he's curious? What should I do?? Should I talk to him more about it? Or not bring it up? Thanks in advance for your advice.
, but we like our separate lives as well. 
Work is work, personal life is personal life -- it's just a very dangerous slope to be on to bring them together.
hehe. Good luck! 
I was wondering if you were going to chime in! And that's just the response I expected from you!! 
