I hear you....I just think we're at the point where we have to get through this the best we can. In NY, Cuomo shut down indoor dining again in the city without really much evidence that it is the cause of cases going up. They were only at 25% capacity. So I guess it was due to the CDC classifying it as high risk and warned anyone over 65 or with pre-exisiting conditions to avoid any indoor space with unmasked patrons. It felt to me like they made that call simply to do something....anything. I really think it's just impossible at this point. If you don't want to get Covid at this point, avoid people if you can. That's not possible for everyone...I know that.
And yes, I'm the one that mentioned that so far, my family had avoided Covid....until Monday, when I talked to my sister. She's feeling better, as far as fatigue/chills/headache....but today woke up with no sense of taste or smell. Her husband isn't feeling so great...fever, chills, nausea, fatigue....he's pretty miserable. I dropped off a pulse ox there so they'd have it. He has asthma is overweight (but not obese). So, they're both isolated in different rooms now, my teenager niece and nephew are downstairs waiting for their PCR test results. We're dropping off food at the door....and keeping tabs on them. My sister takes Humira for Rheumatoid Arthritis, so it's possible that she got it, even with mask...and then passed it to her husband. But there's no way of knowing. Thanks for the well wishes.