Corinna and Graham Vow Renewal Planning Journal

Corinna, I'm bummed to hear that the DFTW didn't work out but your vow renewal is going to be so beautiful and so special. When we planned ours, it was just the two of us (then I met you and a few others on here so we had someone to share our fun with). Can't believe your trip to Dubai is here already. Can't wait to see what you pick out for new wedding bands. Have a safe trip and get back here to fill us in on the details (I love the second bouquet with the two different blues, but that's just my opinion).
 
I am so glad everything is working itself out considering I am one of the main reasons that it's not on the Wonder. I feel horrible. Sometimes not having seniority at DH;'s job makes it hard to be sure u can have time off. He's missed trips to Syd's dance competition too..so difficult.

I have to say my vote is the second flower arrangment. Looks very Cinderella like and I just love her. I also can't wait to see the bands you pick out!!! I am gonna miss seeing you on this beautiful day!!
 
Corinna, I'm bummed to hear that the DFTW didn't work out but your vow renewal is going to be so beautiful and so special. When we planned ours, it was just the two of us (then I met you and a few others on here so we had someone to share our fun with). Can't believe your trip to Dubai is here already. Can't wait to see what you pick out for new wedding bands. Have a safe trip and get back here to fill us in on the details (I love the second bouquet with the two different blues, but that's just my opinion).

Unfortunately what you did would no longer work. You now have to submit your guest list two months ahead of the event. If this had not been to the case, I might just have run with it. We have always been incredibly lucky with our table mates and I would have loved the option to invite our table mates to the ceremony. Indeed, our guests for the vow renewal were our table mates on our Med cruise last year. They live in the Los Angeles area and she even works for the Port of Los Angeles. We kept in touch since the cruise and it will be wonderful to have them there to share our special day with us.

That was my whole experience with DFTW. They were just totally inflexible. I had actually looked into not having a cake and just have a couple of glasses to sparkling wine to toast instead of a bottle and to leave off the sparkling Cider. I had also asked about a combination of colours for my floral and the answer was "No, can't do that, you have to run with whatever is part of the package". I could not believe this. I did not ask them for anything more. I wanted less. Nor did I ask for any kind of discount. So I don't understand why they could not work with me. Crystal Cathedral is a different proposition. There it was more a question of "Yes, sure, we can do this" or "Let me look into this for you". They have a package that costs many times what we are paying, but they had no problem taylor-making a vow renewal for me that took into account or specific circumstances.

I have to say that I love the second bouquet, but I was actually considering asking them to make this with just the ivory and baby blue flowers, but the more I think about this, the more I like the idea of going with the two different shades of blue.

I am so glad everything is working itself out considering I am one of the main reasons that it's not on the Wonder. I feel horrible. Sometimes not having seniority at DH;'s job makes it hard to be sure u can have time off. He's missed trips to Syd's dance competition too..so difficult.

I have to say my vote is the second flower arrangment. Looks very Cinderella like and I just love her. I also can't wait to see the bands you pick out!!! I am gonna miss seeing you on this beautiful day!!

Don't feel bad. As you can see above, I think I had a lucky escape. I also love that I am much more in control now. I can look for my ideal floral and don't have to rely on somebody else choosing for me. By the way, the more I do think about this, I think I will go for the second option. I will also be able to keep my floral as it will be artificial and will be able to display this at home. I can go with a photographer that I like rather than relying on DCL to provide somebody. We also have the opportunity to get to know each other before the event so by they time the big day comes round, she will know what makes us tick.

I wish that you could be there on the day as well, but it was not to be. I promise that there will be plenty of photos and a blow by blow account when I get back.

Corinna
 
It’s been a little while since I updated this. A few more things have fallen into place since then.

The photographer has now been in touch and has confirmed that she is available on the day of our vow renewal. She quoted me $250 for two hours photography and that includes all images on a high resolution DVD. I thought that is a fantastic deal. She will take photos during the actual ceremony, which will last about 30 minutes and then for 90 minutes around the campus of Crystal Cathedral. I am so pleased that this has all worked out. She is going to come and meet us at our hotel in the morning of October 2nd. This is the day we are getting on the Wonder, but we have booked DCL transfers and we will not be picked up until after midday. So this works out really well, too. She will also bring examples of photo albums at that appointment, but I think we just go with the DVD. I then have the option to do my own photo book for the whole trip if I feel this way inclined.

I have decided to go with the second option for the bouquet and change my colour scheme to ivory and blue. I just totally fell in love with this bouquet. I literally looked at hundreth of others, but nothing even came close. Now I have to keep my fingers crossed. I found this on Ebay. The first time it was listed it had Buy It Now option, but when it was relisted, it just gave the option for an auction. The auction finishes in the early morning hours tomorrow, so it is a question of keeping my fingers crossed until then.

We did manage to get our wedding bands in Dubai. We actually managed to get them on our first day in Dubai at the Dubai Mall. They have a Gold Soukh area there. This is a lot less trouble than the real Gold Soukh, which is overrun by people trying to sell fake designer goods. There is a huge number of shops at the Gold Soukh and the choice and quality of the jewellery there is fantastic, but is like running the gauntlet getting to the shops. I discovered the Gold Soukh area at the Dubai Mall at Christmas 2009 and decided to have a look there first. I was a little disappointed that there are a lot of empty shops in this area now. I suppose people to not have as much money for jewellery.

Jewellery in Dubai is on the whole quite fancy and flashy with big stones. This is tnot really my style. However, some shops had plain wedding bands in their windows. In the first of those shops, I saw a ring that I really loved, a plain white gold ring with yellow gold edges. Unfortunately the rings that they had in stock were either to big or to small and they did not offer to see if another branch had them in stock or offer to alter the ring. They did not even give me the price. So I decided to give up and went to another shop.

There they had another ring I liked. This one was yellow gold in the middle with white gold edges. It was a perfect fit for me, but they did not have one in Graham’s size. They did phone around their other branches. They showed us some other rings. They were nice in a contemporary style with white gold in the middle and gold edges. They were to big and heavy for me and they also had diamonds in, which I really did not want. They offered to make a lighter version without the stones, but I rather would try on something like a ring that I will wear every day before commiting myself to buy it. I took the card and decided that I would have a look elsewhere, but if I did not find anything to my liking, I would go back and order the custom rings.

It turned out to be a case of third time lucky. There was another area of shops that we had not even seen last time round. I just casually looked in one of the windows and knew straightaway that I had found the rings that I really wanted. Again they were white gold in the middle with yellow gold edges, but the white gold was not plain, but slightly textured. I decided to go inside. To my delight, the rings that they had were a perfect fit for both of us. They are also very light and extremely comfortable. I could not believe how good value they were either. Here are a couple of photos:

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Unfortunately the photos don’t do the ring justice as jewellery is so difficult to take photos of. I so want to wear this ring now, but I will resist until the day of our vow renewal.

I have most things covered now. By August 9th, I have to make up my mind where we will have dinner on the evening after the vow renewal. I want to have dinner at one of the hotel restaurants. At Disneyland you can only make reservations two months in advance. I am kind of torn between Nappa Rose, which I have heard is the best of the hotel restaurants and is also located at the hotel where we are staying; and the steak house at the Disneyland hotel. I am a little worried that Nappa Rose might be a little bit too fancy for my tastes. However, I think I will probably make a reservation for this as soon as I can and then have a look at the menu when I get there. I was told that reservations for Nappa Rose go quickly, but that I would probably get a reservation for Steakhouse 55 with even only a couple of days advance notice.

The cake is also something I will organize through Disney. I have seen some beautiful traditional cakes with flowers, but also some gorgeous cakes with a Little Mermaid theme. Considering the new colour scheme and the Ocean/ Mermaid theme of my jewellery, this might work better. Here are links to both styles:

http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=21289150&postcount=90

http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=40323797&postcount=5

The last thing I need to get is a brooch or pin for the wedding dress. I don’t really like the brooch that came with it, but I think that it needs a brooch or pin. I am leaning towards something related to the ocean and maybe something with a blue accent, but so far I have not found anything that caught my eye. I thought I had found something earlier on, but this is just a bit to big for my liking.

Corinna
 

I personally love Napa Rose, and while some of the menu items might sound a bit far-fetched I assure you there will be plenty of "regular" food items. It is the priciest of all the restaurants at the hotels but IMO it's worth it!! They also have a private room, depending on how many people will be with you (sorry, I haven't read back in your PJ) ... if you aren't worried about privacy the patio area is also quite lovely. I had wanted to do my wedding reception at Napa Rose while we were still talking about doing a small wedding at the courthouse, until we found out we could afford to do a wishes wedding. :goodvibes
 
I personally love Napa Rose, and while some of the menu items might sound a bit far-fetched I assure you there will be plenty of "regular" food items. It is the priciest of all the restaurants at the hotels but IMO it's worth it!! They also have a private room, depending on how many people will be with you (sorry, I haven't read back in your PJ) ... if you aren't worried about privacy the patio area is also quite lovely. I had wanted to do my wedding reception at Napa Rose while we were still talking about doing a small wedding at the courthouse, until we found out we could afford to do a wishes wedding. :goodvibes

Thanks. There will be four of us. It really will be very intimate. We found out last week that we are getting a very nice bonus so I could easily have afforded the Disney version, but I am happier with what I am getting now. This will be much more personal. I will use some of the money that I am saving on a Photopass CD, two Mickey's Halloween Parties and a make over at Bibbidi Bobbidi boutique for one of the parties. I did this on the Disney Magic last year when they offered this for a limited time and had a blast.

Corinna
 
If only 4 people then you should splurge for Napa Rose! They may still be able to give you a private area.

It sounds like you already have your plans settled but Disneyland does offer Escape weddings for up to 26 people for $5,000 inclusive. They don't really advertise this too much. The problem is, $5k may be a little steep for 4 people. :goodvibes
 
If only 4 people then you should splurge for Napa Rose! They may still be able to give you a private area.

It sounds like you already have your plans settled but Disneyland does offer Escape weddings for up to 26 people for $5,000 inclusive. They don't really advertise this too much. The problem is, $5k may be a little steep for 4 people. :goodvibes

I am reading through your planning journal at the moment and was really surprised that they offer the Escape option. This is the first time I see this mentioned for Disneyland. Yes, $5000 is very steep for what we want. I also really have my heart set on Crystal Cathedral now. I have always loved this place. I think to me it is more magical than anything Disney, which is hard to believe for a Disney nut like me.

By the way, I loved the photos of those ribbon veils that you posted.

Corinna
 
Just catching up on your plans Corinna!!! The Crystal Cathedral sounds absolutely beautiful!!!! I am sure it will make for absolutely beautiful photos!!!
 
Just a quick update, I got my bouquet. In the end I could not go to sleep until I knew whether or not I had won it. I am so happy. On the confirmation page, they had a photo of matching button holes so I bid on them as well and that auction has less than 2 hours to go. They come as a set of 6 and I only need one, but I am sure I can include the others in one of my craft projects. They are a really good price as well.

Corinna
 
did you use a website to order your bouquet? dh sprung a vow renewal on me 2 weeks ago while i was at disney and wants to go ahead with it this summer down south in july! i got my dress yesterday but am totally scrambling...and i loved the bouquets you showed!
 
Nice bands Corinna. I love the 2 tone rings. Seems like everything is coming together!!! I need a vacay so bad!! Don't wanna rush through the summer but 135 days till m vacay!!
 
did you use a website to order your bouquet? dh sprung a vow renewal on me 2 weeks ago while i was at disney and wants to go ahead with it this summer down south in july! i got my dress yesterday but am totally scrambling...and i loved the bouquets you showed!

I found them both on Ebay. They have a huge choice for artificial bouquets on there.

Nice bands Corinna. I love the 2 tone rings. Seems like everything is coming together!!! I need a vacay so bad!! Don't wanna rush through the summer but 135 days till m vacay!!

I so understand where you are coming from. I have been back at work for a week now, but my vacation is just a distant memory.

I quite like the summer to be over, especially if it continues the way it is. It is cold and wet here. I am actually considering getting my winter coat out again.

Corinna
 
I have another quick update. I did get the button holes as well. Now I just have to get a matching tie for Graham and then we are pretty much set.

There has been another little change of plans. You may recall that I got a ribbon veil from Ebay early on during the planning stages. I still think it is really cute and I really wish I could wear it. Unfortunately it is attached with a comb. I have very fine hair and just can’t get the comb to stay in. So I decided to have a go at making my own ribbon veil, but with a hair band to keep it in place. So I spent a happy hour this morning looking for ivory ribbon and lace in different width, designs and textures. I am also going to add a couple of light blue ribbons. I am not sure how this is going to work out, but it is worth a try, especially as I do not like what is commercially available at the moment.



Corinna
 
I can't wait to see your ribbon veil! I feel like I can't start working on mine until I know what my dress will look like.
 
I can't wait to see your ribbon veil! I feel like I can't start working on mine until I know what my dress will look like.

Yes, I know what you mean. I have had my dress since just before Christmas. So I can experiment and see how they look together.

Considering how much has changed since I first started this, I am actually surprised that I am now getting to the point where things are actually really coming together.

The next project is some kind of brooch or pin for my dress and a tie for DH. I saw a gorgeous light blue silk tie on Sunday. I am not sure if Graham is going to get a new suit or if he is wearing one that he already has. Either is fine by me.

Corinna
 
Corinna, LOVE the wedding bands. They are stunning. So glad you got the bouquet and buttonhole for Graham. I too can't wait to see the veil ribbon. You are so talented that i'm certain it will be beautiful.

By the way, I've got my beautiful necklace on today (and ALWAYS get compliments about it)!
 
Corinna, LOVE the wedding bands. They are stunning. So glad you got the bouquet and buttonhole for Graham. I too can't wait to see the veil ribbon. You are so talented that i'm certain it will be beautiful.

By the way, I've got my beautiful necklace on today (and ALWAYS get compliments about it)!

I am so glad that I got those wedding bands. Our old ones were gold and I very rarely wear gold. I had my heart set on white gold bands for a while, but when I did some research last year, I found myself drawn to two-tone bands and also to bands with some kind of texture to it. So when I saw those, I knew they were the ones. Of course, it did not do any harm either that they were so cheap. Gold in Dubai is strictly sold by weight and as the bands are really light, we got them for a fantastic price. I was really impressed that the sales person did not try to sell us something more expensive. I asked him to see the rings, we tried them on and when he saw how well they fit, he told us that they are made for us. I tend to agree.



I am glad that you are still wearing the necklace that I made. This design is kind of retired. I tend to go through phases where I do a certain design over and over again and then I move on to something else. I have definitely outgrown this one. At the moment I can’t get enough of making glass tile pendants.



Corinna
 
I know that is not connected directly to the vow renewal, but I see the whole vacation as one big celebration. Some people on our cruise meet thread for our Mexican Riviera cruise had a call yesterday to advise them that Mazatlan has been dropped from our itinerary and we will get to spend to days in Cabo San Lucas instead. I am really happy about this. Mazatlan has never appealed to me and there were no excursions that interested me either. We went to Puerto Vallarta and Cabo San Lucas on our Panama Canal cruise and loved both ports. I was really torn about Cabo. As per the old itinerary, we get there at 7:15 am and leave at 2:15 am. I have my heart set on doing the Dolphin Trainer for a Day excursion at Cabo and Graham really wants to do the Sea Of Cortez snorkelling excursion while I am doing this. I would not be able to do this as there is a risk of jellyfish stings and they won’t let anybody do this excursion who is allergic to insect stings, which I am. So our day was fully planned. However, I also really want to do a boat trip to Land’s End to see the famous arch and the sea lions. There was no way that we could do both in one day. Now we can do the excursions that we want to do on one day and then sort out the boat trip when we get to Cabo on the other day. When we were there in January, there was no shortage of people offering boat tours in the marina area. This vacation is just getting better and better.

Corinna
 














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