I know exactly what you mean--I am struggling with getting DH to comprehend that I don't want to just show up and wing it all. I really want to have an idea of things we would like to do and see, but I am not going to be so crazy that we cannot go with the flow and such. Plus, I know that my DMIL or DGM will try to take control. They are more than welcome to do their own thing if they are not happy with what I have planned.

Honestly, (time for my confession) that is what I am most concerned about on our trip. DH's parents are planning nothing and letting me do all the work. DGM and DBF each have their own opinions on what they like to do while at Disney. My Dad and DBIL are go with the flow so they are the least of my concerns. DMIL have people at church telling her what she needs to do when but that is their opinion so I keep telling her we have different ideas from them (especially since it is coming from a couple who have no kids, nor the desire to be around children). Ugh!! Sorry to lay that down but I feel a little better just admitting it all!
Pulling the sword--I hope you have time. It is one of the small things but it makes a great photo op! I think you will be surprised on how much you are able to get done. With the low crowds we hopefully will only have to use a FP for the really popular, bigger rides. I think the thing that will slow my family down more than anything is how hot it is going to be!! :scared3: I think as long as you do not get so focused on getting from Point A to Point B then onto C, you will be good to go.