Actually we did a hybrid style of commando and laid back. We went for 7 days and this is what we did:
Adenturing Family of myself, DW, twin DD4 with events geared only for twin DD4.
9/24 to 9/30
Sunday: Arrive at noon; No parks planned; Chef Mickey for Dinner
Monday or Commando Day
AK Morning EMH:
Africa Kil Safari
Pangani Forest Trail
Festival of Lion King
Pocahantas and her Forest Friends
Lunch at Flame Tree BBQ
Rest at Resort noon to 3pm
MGM Evening EMH:
Brown Derby Fantasmic Dinner Package @4pm
Beauty and the Beast
Fantasmic
Playhouse Disney
World of Disney Animation and Interactive Studio
Voyage of the Little Mermaid
Tuesday: DTD day and dinner at Whispering Canyon
Wednesday or Best of Day
MK Magical beginnings EMH (awesome)
Main street bakery (snack and rest for everyone)
While eating we saw barbershop quartet and bus performers
Launch to GF; Bus to MGM
Playhouse Disney
ABC Comissary
Beauty and the Beast
Shopping/Character shows on the Streets of MGM/Autographs
Dan Zane and Friends concert
Bus to Epcot @3pm
Dinner at San Angel Inn 4pm to 5:30 pm
Journey into Imagination and Imageworks
The Living Seas esp Turtle Talk with Crush
Spaceship Earth
Back to resort at 7pm
Swimming at the resort
Thursday: Magic Kingdom all day (9 to 9), CRT at 9:50am
Friday: DTD in morning, CP 5:05pm,
MNSSHP
Saturday: Resort for packing and swimming, leave at 2pm
That first monday was the most packed because I wanted to schedule as much for the girls to see and knock out AK and MGM in one day, but after that everything was at a more leisurely pace (even though it seemed as if it wasn't). We went back to MGM primarily because we gave the girls a choice of going to see Belle or Pocahontas (both of which they wanted to see again) and they chose Belle. Their bonus in that choice was that Dan Zane was in concert (which my wife really wnated them to see, and I was clueless) so we got tickets for that. On Wednesday we did the Magical Beginnings which the kids really enjoyed a lot and besides riding all the rides in Fantasyland in an hour they also played follow the leader with Snow White; London Bridge with Minnie Mouse and Daisy Duck; watched Peter Pan, Wendy and Captain Hook play another game (they did not want to participate); rode Dumbo with Stitch (second ride of the day, just missed being the last car on the first rids of the day); and played with Mickey Mouse (forget the game). Consequently our MK day (Thursday) was a relaxing day throughout the park.
Next time we will probably only due two days of theme parks and two (or three) days of water parks, because we will have their younger brother along.