Poolrat
I am alive, sometimes I wonder too.
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I can't imagine they have grounds for a lawsuit but I guess you never know.
Oh how scary! We've had a couple of scares at the lake. I made the mistake of assuming too much once. My nephew who I knew was a decent swimmer was at the lake with us. We went over the rules, no running on the dock, you can only jump in xx and xx (it was a sliding scale at which point the kids have been allowed to jump in based on ability and depth) and so on. I didn't think I needed to tell him not to dive without testing depth first, he'd been to the lake with us multiple times before.
A head full of sand and a wicked headache later, we all learned a valuable lesson.
The Lake is never supervised and at 13, they are allowed by the club to be there solo, or bring up to 2 friends I think, without an adult. It is quite shallow in the roped off area and at the end, all they really do is jump in and get right back out. Over and over and over.
Which is exactly how Evan bit through his lip last summer, kids pushing kids in, one almost landing on him and causing Evan to basically knee his own chin as he came up and then bit through his lip.
Is that kind of horseplay anything different than I did as a kid, no. Can it be dangerous? Yes. Would it have happened if I was there, I'm sure it would have, I'd have been on the lawn, not out on the dock.
So....I don't know what the answer is other than to really educate on the dangers of horseplay, holding breath and swimming with a buddy. Which they pretty much always are but...are they really thinking of it that way and watching each other all the time? No, I don't think they are. not my any malintent, just by the nature of being kids playing and being focused really only on themselves.
In the end, minor accidents and even moderate accidents happen. Common sense, limiting the really stupid horseplay and know when and how to get help is the key to a safe time. Good luck in finding peace this summer with the boys at the lake. It can be nerve wracking but in the end it is sort of a rite of passage and part of growing up.
I wish. Nothing really seems to stick. They have the attention span of a flea and the memory of a fruit fly. Bless their hearts.
It sticks but deep. It should come out in a few years.....

