That's such an individual choice-in our case within the same family. DH wants to be at OKW, away, quiet, and he spends most of his time on vacation golfing. But then to DH, "vacation" and "golf" are interchangeable words. Me, I'd rather be close to the parks, that's one of the reasons I love BCV so much. Up and out the door to the theme parks. We've solved it by DH encouraging me to take 2 trips to WDW per year. On one trip, we go together, stay at OKW, he golfs and I go to the parks alone, then we meet up and do a few things toward the end of the day. On the other trip, I go solo, stay at BCV, and basically "live" in Epcot (I think next time I go, I'll go in the IG at 9:00, then just sit on a bench with a book to read and listen to the music).