We are a family of 3 and the first time we stayed in a 1 bedroom our daughter, then 11, asked us to please never book that type of room again because she didn't like the idea that if someone broke into the room in the middle of the night they would "get" her first (What can I say, she is a city kid and unfortunately we are lock obsessed). She is now 14 and every time I am booking our next stay I ask her if she wants a 1 bedroom and she declines. Its fine with me, I don't cook on vacation. Heck, I don't even really cook at home so why would I start on vacation...

We have had NO problem at all in the studio's at BCV or BWV's. We always stayed at the Yacht and Beach Club before buying at both locations and I love that I have a small frig and microwave now just so that every meal we have isn't wasted because neither my daughter or myself can finish it. Now half the time we don't even eat the leftovers we bring back to the room but its nice knowing its available to us if we so desire.
I think I would think differently about a 1 bedroom if it actually meant my daughter had a BED to sleep on instead of a pull out couch but regardless of which one we book, she is still on the pull out.Your children are young so I wouldn't think twice about it.
I am not a pack and unpack and then repack and unpack person myself. I bring so many toiletries and moving to me is a waste of time and energy so I wouldn't want to move either.
We generally stay 2 weeks in the summer and 1 week during Xmas break and even though we aren't park commando's, we don't fell cramped in the studio.
As for no VCR or DVD player in the room, who cares? Little one's can always find something to watch at the end of the day with all the Disney Channels and information channels they have in the room. I find myself watching it obsesively...

Actually, its the Appliance Direct guy who I am most obsessed with...
What ever you decide, don't lament over it and torment yourself with self doubt and second guessing. Just make your decision and forget about it...Its vacation. Its time to relax and not to let the little things in life upset you....JMHO>>
Enjoy
Heidi