You (including your son) will have a wonderful time at the show!!! There is a bit of audience participation. During the preshow the clowns include some of the audience members (they make a joke about showing them to their seat and take their tickets up onto the stage like they're suppose to sit there). There's also a scene during the bkie stunts where one audience member (from the front middle section) gets pulled up on stage, lays down, and is jumped over. It is expensive, but well worth it!!! My dh and I went back in January and had a great time!! So much so that we just went and saw one of the other cirque shows (Varekai) when it toured in our area.