
There is chocolate that doesn't contain dairy?!? Must be a regional thing...
My daughter is dairy free and, yes, there is such a thing as dairy free chocolate. Trader Joe's and Enjoy Life both make dairy free semi sweet chocolate chips and I was able to pick up a few dairy free chocolate bars for DD at Wegmans this week too.
This year my oldest DD will not be here for the first time ever. She and her fiancee live in Buffalo and I didn't want him to miss out with his family as he is an only child. We had Christmas with them last weekend.
Christmas Eve dinner will be DH, DD23, DS12, and myself. We will have filet mignon fondue cooked in oil, shrimp cocktail, steamed clams, lobsters, fruit salad, and french onion soup. Gingerbread with whipped cream for dessert. We will then go over to FIL's house to spend with the family there - apps will be served but we are usually too stuffed to eat anything. FIL likes to put out sandwich fixings, SIL's will make sausage rolls and a cheese platter. There will be some beer and liquor involved.
Christmas breakfast will be the same roster of people as Christmas Eve dinner - we will have french toast casserole (dairy free for DD), bacon, sausage, and more fruit.
Christmas dinner is at our house and will also be DH's family. SIL's, BIL's, nieces, and nephews will be in attendance. My DH's two brothers are both single with no kids so these gatherings are all they have. It won't be everyone as FIL will hand out his usual envelopes of money to the grandkids on Christmas Eve (therefore some will not be around for another year). It will be around 17 people total. I cook most everything. We have Honeybaked Ham, Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, beans, corn, Italian greens (escarole sauteed with garlic, potatoes, cherry peppers, and ham), cranberry sauce, lasagna, Texas Roadhouse copykat rolls, Crescent rolls, Sweet Potato Casserole, shrimp cocktail, cheese and crackers. For dessert I am making cheesecake with cherries or praline sauce (vegan), Vegan cheesecakes, and cream puffs. My SIL is bringing mac and cheese and a dessert (probably a chocolate swiss roll), and my niece will bring a dessert as well I think. I like the idea the poster above had about the Honeybaked Brisket. I may have that next year instead of a turkey (which is just so messy and a lot of work).