WOW Marianne!!!! You should see your bag! It's amazing how D went to such lengths to make the mirror images of you and Anastasia on the bag. The resemblance is striking.
I've done deco both ways and I honestly prefer the pins.
Great find on your shirt. I wear a large or xl in juniors too but I look at it this way, no girl in HS should be larger than myself -- IMO there are way too many obese teens (and children). I am also peeved that they redid sizing in clothes so women think they are smaller than they are. And last spring one our our Targets had *new sizes* listed for boys clothing since so many kids are now obese. Obesity just leads to so many other health issues and seems to be the norm now (can you tell I work in health care?). I guess I'm also peeved because I ordered a skirt from Old Navy in a size larger than I normally wear after dd was born and I wanted the extra room and it's huge b/c that's apparently the time they changed sizes. I belted it and it worked, but now that I've lost some of that baby weight the skirt swims on me and I so love the skirt and it's still in style

Now the ultra skinnies -- they are all photoshopped and that is sickening too -- to me that is what sets off the negative body images. OK, back to your regularly scheduled trip report.
Love your wedding photos! Well, not your wedding, but your photos. My DH's best friend from HS is a female. He doesn't keep in touch with her too often anymore though as she just recently finished medical school (very time consuming).