Tiggerrn2 said:
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We got a lot done at the book fair set-up today. Of course, we had 5 no-shows for volunteers. I had to call my mom and a friend going to another school to come give me a hand. Wish people wouldn't do that to people. It's hard enough to try to get volunteers let alone have them not show up when they say they will. We'll see how the rest of this week goes for set-up and previews. They are on their own next week. I'll be in the MotherLand!!

I'll probably be so worried about this stinking book fair that I won't be able to relax and enjoy myself!! LOL
Sorry to hear about the book fair no-show volunteer situation
Hope it's better today. Don't worry during your vacation, not worth it to worry while you're at the Happiest Place on Earth!!
I've been there, done that with volunteering with the PTA committee at my dkids' school. I was not in a situation like you, tho. More of a snobby mom that I co-chaired on a committee with last school yr. She thought she was "better" than me, as of her qualifications, experience on a certain school PTA committee, that is all volunteer to begin with! Her and I co-chaired on the Exceptional Child Committee, about talking about children with diasabilites, etc. Writing for hte weekly school newsletter- even tho we wrote monthly. We both had good ideas, but she wanted to take control of hte WHOLE comittee without letting me know about it

. I had to fight tooth and nail to write about my own children's disabilities(without using their names). In the past years, the mom that was the chair for this committee wrote about Down's Syndrome(daughter has Down's) and other childhood disabilites. The former Chair stepped down and I wanted to fill in. Then the mom wanted to co-chair with me-which was fine with me, I had no problem with that. She kept telling me she was going to contact me and we would have meetings, etc of what to write aobut, etc. I had to literally call her almost every night b/c I would never hear from her. She would make excuses she was going to call me from her son's football practice, etc. This had gone on for 2 months! This happened about a yr ago. We finally met up and she's telling me she has a Master's degree in this and that and how she is SO qualified for htis position, etc. I'm thinking, this is not a paid job, just volunteering to help others!!
Anyways, She mostly wrote her stuff on other issues and not childhood disabilities. I was assigned for 3 months out of the school yr- which was fine by me. About hte beginning of 2 of the months I was going ot write my articles, she wanted to put her stuff in the newsletter instead

. I fought with her on that, mostly via email. We actually had to use the principal of our school to be our mediator, seriously!! the one month I was going to do the bulletin board for the month(we had a bulletin board near the front of hte school for this certain committee), she puts her stuff up that was unrelated to my article, without me knowing about it!! I was so livid

! I talked to my dh aobut this to see what he thinks I should do,.He agreed with me to take down her stuff and put up my stuff for hte month. So that's what I did for hte one month. She was angry but she got over it

She never apologized to being unfair with me,not jsust this incident, but other incidents happened with her, me, with hte committee. I had quit the committee in May for this coming school yr. She could have it all if she wants now!!
I just had a passion to write about the disabilities, to help other people that may be going thru it or knows someone that is going thru all of that.
I have been and still this school yr, volunteer as a room helper, for my kid's classrooms, for parties, etc. I think I'll stick to that
