I totally understand where you are coming from with the character crazed daughter

I too have one and we have to do all the character meals
I did not care for chef mickey's dinner. I only did it once and that was enough for me

We had really bad service, the food was blah and it was so crowded with kids running EVERYWHERE you couldn't hear yourself think!
As my DD HAD to go back we tried CM's at breakfast and had a wonderful time!!!! It wasn't near as crowded (we had early ADRS) and the food was really good. The server was also great. The breakfast changed my mind and we are planning on eating breakfast there again in June.
I enjoyed LTT a lot. It has a lot of the same characters as CM's though so if your trying to get as many possible characters... it might not be the best stradegy to do both CM and LTT... but I am really not sure about how important it is for you to get as many different characters as possible.
They have a playhouse Disney breakfast at DHS that she might like too.
MY DD can't live without eating at CRT once our trip. It's a very magical moment for her.
Another character meal to seriously think about is Garden Grill in Epcot. This is my family's FAV character meal!!!!
If you ask for a booth... you get a nice view of the Living with the land ride while you eat. A bonus is the boots are VERY high backed so there is a lot of privacy. You get Mickey, Pluto chip N dale all to yourself when they come to your table!!! It is the best set up for character interaction as there aren't a 100 other kids running around your table and in your pics.
