Our spending( that includes snacks) is $30/per day, but that consists
mainly of souvenirs---which I try to make sure are practical (i.e. clothing we'd actually wear in the real world, kitchen items I truly use, etc.). Snack-spending is probably about $7 of the $30. So, I guess our biggest question would be the Dining Plan for the first 5 days...I don't think we could trim the $65/day for 3 people much on the remaining days.
DH hates the idea of not having a car...we usually take Saturdays off from the parks and go to church that night---the Catholic church is about 10 minutes away. Previously, when I've priced out the grocery services and cab fare for our needs, it's came out close to the car rental charge. Last year, at $140, it was our highest rental yet. The year before, it was $97 inc. taxes for a week. Still, I can price it out again.
Yeah, the petsitting thing is big. We have two older cats (13 and 12 years old) and one somewhat neurotic dog. Our petsitter actually works at our vet's and is a college student...more importantly, she lets our dog sleep on the bed with her and I think he'd have a nervous breakdown if that didn't happen! I used to pay her $25 a day, but I know she's going through a very rough time financially, is very responsible and trustworthy, so I gave her the $5 a day raise. If I boarded our dog

, it would be $18 a day and then I'd have to pay someone to come once a day to the house to feed the cats (they've never been boarded and at their age, I don't think they'd cope well.) and tend to their litter box...it would still be about $28 a day. Although I love my local family members dearly, I don't know any who wants to actually stay overnight and pamper our dog (who also is prone to seizures, I have to admit) properly.
disneysteve, I know that our budgets tend to be similar EXCEPT when it comes to accomodations. Granted, it's quite a bit more than you spend on skyauction, but I think an average of $121.41 a night (inc. taxes) isn't excessive (as opposed to staying in Wilderness Lodge at $299/night, etc.). It's really our only family vacation each year (we also have trips to visit relatives in Philadelphia, Seattle, etc., but that's not the same kind of vacation) and the atmosphere and amentities at WL/VWL are almost as enjoyable as the parks for us. Seriously, I'd consider going there just for a resort vacation if it were just DH and myself.
Sooo, I probably could cut the DP and, as disneysteve said, save $240 or more. I'll look into the possibility of using ME instead of renting a car (wonder if it's still going to be free in May 2007?).
Thanks for the good, detailed suggestions! I appreciate them...
Karla B.