Hey Lynn!
Time has flown! Wow 24, hope she had a great day!
I can't believe how much the kidlets have grown and I'm glad that you get a bit of $ to watch them.. every penny helps right?!
Giant packet of our entire financial life is on the way to be processed.. cross fingers, make a wish and a hopeful prayer. I can't see how they can argue and continue to take everything when we have
nothing! The only assets we own are .. well... you know.... the kind that are attached to my body.



And it's not like those are worth all that much, well except to dh of course
Sis dropped by to fax some papers, chatted about the memorial/ bonfire for my cousin. Lots of family were there that we rarely see.. until the next funeral.

Including a part of my uncle's family that were NOT invited

But I guess everyone was civil even though they refused to talk to them.
Eloy and I talked about family disagreements, he thinks his mom is "done" with him. Which surprised me considering it wasn't that big of a deal (the whole drama of SIL being told by her mom that she shouldn't come visit us.. Eloy got pissed and left a message asking why.. MIL called back and said she won't visit, afraid he would tell his sis anything she would say).
He said when he talked with her that she was "flat".. that angry unemotional detached feel.
It's depressing, he's tried so many times to encourage her to be part of his life.. things go well for awhile, then he innocently says something that she considers "wrong" and POOF! She won't talk to him.
He shrugs and says he doesn't care if he ever hears from her again.

Sometimes I want to shake some sense into MIL and show her how much he does care.. even if he won't admit it. I could never treat my boys like that, chances are that I might not like everything they do as adults.. but they are MY boys. A part of me that I will always love. I can be disappointed, worried, angry.. but I would still want to be part of their life. No strings.. no " I love you, but..."
Love means accepting a person just as they are.