
Hmmm, I don't think anyone here is going to contribute to the cost of your vacation. Sorry, thought you were looking for help, suggestions, advice...that's what these boards are typically for....not for whining and then getting angry or offended or whatever when someone doesn't whine with you.
I don't know your financial situation...and don't care. The cost is the same for all of us. I live in Arizona and have to pay full price for my APs too. Oh well....I probably go almost as many days a year as some Southern California APs, AND unlike many of them, I have to pay for hotels and loads more gas to get here. Yes, it's expensive, and yeah, we have to penny pinch quite often, but hey, eating breakfast in our room and knowing which places have large portions so we can share and not be hungry.....doing all kinds of crazy things to raise money to go back....it's all worth it to us the moment we walk down Main Street and see that Castle. I could stop right there, sit down and never move and have the greatest vacation ever. But I go with a happy heart....I moan a little about the costs but I certainly don't bash others who suggest ways to save money or even that maybe you're not ready for this.
So...don't listen....you're apparently more offended by my suggestion than I'll ever be by something you can say.......but don't come back and whine after your trip unless you're willing to see responses that say "I told you so."