Don't worry. Disney is always willing to switch back and forth. And then back and forth again. I did that a couple times. Most people, after seeing the final estimate for custom weddings switch back to intimate. That is what my coordinator told me anyways. I was ready to pay extra for everything for my custom wedding, then Disney told me they needed an extra $3000 premium on top of the fee for the DJ because it was a busy time of year for the DJ's. I thought that was so stupid.
So instead I went all out on my intimate wedding and spent $12,000 on that. Instead of $25,000 just to add a meal and DJ for 20 people.
Anyways, Disney is very understanding with switching back and forth.
Hope that helps.
Gabrielle
Wedding Pavilion 12/16/05