That's very discouraging to hear about the room assignments and IMO probably not the appropriate response - or at least not one that is going to improve guest satisfaction. I've worked a lot in tourism and there are
tons of thankless jobs in that industry. I've been screamed at more times than I could count for things that had nothing to do with me. Nor is an entitled feeling a
DVC exlusive. Never was I ever told "well, we can't please them all so let's stop trying to please any". At least you get my meaning I'm sure. Room assignment at Disney really seems to be more insulated than a lot of positions - unlike the front desk CM position that may now have to hear more often guest not getting a request. I can imagine it's kind of like fitting a jigsaw puzzle together for assigning rooms but to not try seems more about decreased concern for guests/members than care for employees.
But - with all that being said - I don't always put in a request but when I have with DVC we've been pretty lucky and had it met in some way or another so my impression is that they are still trying. The learning experience I posted above was pre-DVC at WL. I know we won't always have this happen but I hope that the individual resorts will try to do this even if DVC doesn't direct them to. The one time I haven't gotten something from the request was BLT. A trainee checked me in for a 2 night stay in a studio - MK view. I asked if there might be a higher room and when she looked to the trainer the response was this. "Well, you can call back and check if you want to bother doing that". I really felt the love there!