I have a really bad situation. If anyone has a good answer, I know my DIS friends will.
My husband let my son bring home a kitten about a year ago after we agreed we didn't want any more cats. I should have insisted he take it back right then, but of course then I would have been the bad guy to crush a 5 yr. old.
Anyway, the cat has destroyed our front and back doors, some of our windows and is now trying to scratch our new bedroom furniture. A closed door is like a magnet to this cat.
My husband now says either get it declawed or it's gone. Now I've never gotten a cat declawed, because I just can't stand the thought of it. This cat loves to go outside and climb trees and sometimes stays out all night. We live in the country. You can't keep this cat inside. I just can't bear to get her declawed under these circumstances, but I know my husband is serious about getting rid of this cat if I don't.
Does anyone have any advice, suggestions, alternatives? Thanks so much.
My husband let my son bring home a kitten about a year ago after we agreed we didn't want any more cats. I should have insisted he take it back right then, but of course then I would have been the bad guy to crush a 5 yr. old.
Anyway, the cat has destroyed our front and back doors, some of our windows and is now trying to scratch our new bedroom furniture. A closed door is like a magnet to this cat.
My husband now says either get it declawed or it's gone. Now I've never gotten a cat declawed, because I just can't stand the thought of it. This cat loves to go outside and climb trees and sometimes stays out all night. We live in the country. You can't keep this cat inside. I just can't bear to get her declawed under these circumstances, but I know my husband is serious about getting rid of this cat if I don't.
Does anyone have any advice, suggestions, alternatives? Thanks so much.