I started using an actual envelope system about a year ago and I am LOVING it!! It does take some discipline but you know what.... Christmas is a month away and I have MORE than enough CASH ready to go shopping! I don't use the envelopes for daily/monthly bills like groceries.... I use it more for long-term expenses like a new car, snow tires, Christmas, vacation, and tuition. It is a HUGE blessing to know that when I have a big expense coming up, I have the money. When we used to try to leave it in the checking account, it would (slowly but surely) disappear.... a little extra spent here, a little extra spent there.... and before you know it the new car money or new tire money that I was counting on was gone! With the envelopes it is "out of sight, out of mind" until it is needed!
I will still charge many of my Christmas gifts in order to maximize my air miles.... but I have the cash to immediately pay it off! ...............P