Darcy03231
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I just want to take a minute to thank everyone who offered me advice. I don't think we will be buying Toyota or Honda or Nissan, we are (foolishly at this point) loyal to Ford.
My husband has fixed the truck to the point that it is reliable to get us from A to B and back again (knock on wood).
We are going to have to have a long discussion to figure out how to move forward at this point and you guys have given us a lot of food for thought, so thank you.
I think what will likely happen is we will fix the Explorer (pray it is just the lifter), fix the timing belt on the van and sell it, then work on fixing up the truck while my husband drives the saturn to and from work.
I wish we could just go to the dealership and trade in but I have two reasons for not wanting to:
1) I worry about how much we'd get in trade in at this point and we really do not want a higher payment. If we fix the head, the only repairs going forward on the explorer should be minor (HUGE KNOCK ON WOOD) and,
2) though he always puts us first, I know my husband wants a new truck for our next vehicle purchase. I really want to make that happen for him, he really is a wonderful man and deserves whatever he wants.
OP, please take this in the spirit in which it is intended. Until your children are out of the house both you and your husband both should have vehicles that will fit the whole family in. We're a family of 8 (DH and I and six kids - 2 of his, 2 of mine and 2 fosters). We both drove minivans/large SUVs for a long time. There will be plenty of time down the road for your husband to get his truck once the kids our out on their own. We were shopping for a new vehicle once and I fell in love with a particular car. DH's response was once I could figure out how six kids were going to fit in it I could have it. He was right. If something happened to either car we could still transport our whole family in the other one.