My DH is the KING of the drive through the night. He is normally up a total of 40 hrs + in the beginning of each trip, as we hit a park when we first arrive. So by the time he finally hits the pillow, he hits it hard.
Here is how we work it. First, my DH seldoms lets me drive as he prefers to do it himself. We have occasionally stopped at rest areas or I have taken a turn when he has gotten tired. We leave the night before around 8 pm from Maryland. This is so we have the night for our 4 kids to sleep (in other words, not fight) and there is less traffic. My hubby uses the cruise control and we set it at the speed limit, there is after all, no hurry to get there as check in is in the afternoon. Also, my DH is always honest about when he is tired. He will stop and rest, no reason to try to push it and risk falling asleep. I am usually up with him, though I manage a few hours of sleep.
DH next tip is to get yourself the 16 oz Mountain Dews to drink. The caffeine content is the highest and it helps a lot. As do having something to snack on. We usually stop at a Cracker Barrel for breakfast and lots of coffee when the kids finally wake up. Usually in St Augestine or Daytona.
Now, if we are going to WDW first, we go to Typhoon Lagoon. Much easier to get a spot and DH can sleep in the shade, go on some slides, etc.. We eat lunch there. It is much easier to spend the day in a water park than at DTD shopping. That wears him out fast.
If we go to Universal first, we check in and leave our bags and head to one of the parks.
It can be difficult, but not as bad as driving with fighting, whiney kids during the day. There are pros and cons to any way you go. At night- kids sleep, no traffic, quiet- but you will be groggy. During the day- you can drive faster, but there is traffic and you will have to stop a lot for everyone to go to the bathroom or eat. Its all what you can handle. Hope this helps.
Melissa
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