I don't consider myslef a liberal, and I don't think liberals are silly. They just feel more strongly towards certain issues as I feel more strongly about other issues. We are not a family of 5 or more. Just my wife and I, and our upcoming baby. I totally agree with AnnK and with RamVa. Thank God not everything in life is black and white and just a small percentage of people are too anal to let small things ruin what otherwise is a fun and relaxing vacation time. Unfortunately for those people, they have to put up with us, fellows with a more (liberal..carefree..easygoing...irresponsible...whatever...pick your word). Unfortunately for us, we have to put up with those stiffies when we encounter them. Such is life in a free country like America (Thank God). Different strokes for different folks.
I don't believe that the rules should be abused, but there should be some flexibility regarding any rule, and a small child should be considered within that flexibility. I know Disney resevations think that way too. If you don't believe me, talk to a CM, ask them if you can fit a fifth child in a 1 BR and then get back to me.
If I ever find myself in the situation of having 3 children and one of them is small to fit in a crib, I will not be asking permission to anybody in this board to go to a 1 BR and I will not be taking a 2 BR for the purpose. If all of the children are older, then I will get the 2 BR. That was not the case in this thread.
I am sure that the vast majority of guests (both DVC and regular), think like I do. SOmetimes DVCers in this board seem to think that we represent a large percentage of WDW visitors...We don't, and, although I am sure Disney sometimes reads our opinions, they just take them like they are, as the voice of a small percentage of their visitors.